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Speaker 0 asks Speaker 1 for some history regarding their gender dysphoria to help with writing a letter. Speaker 1 explains that when they were in school, they wrote an essay expressing their discomfort with their biological sex and how they felt. However, people dismissed their feelings because they appeared to be male.

I'm a trans guy. I've never been to the gynecologist. Today's the fucking day. I asked that they put a note on it: this is a trans guy; he's gonna present male. I called today to make sure the note's on my chart. She said, "The notes on your chart that you're, a trans man and blah blah blah." Okay. Cool. Have a good day, miss Allen. She works at a women's health clinic, and my name is fucking Sasha. Jesus Christ, guys. Full transparency, I'm tweaking out. My anxiety for my fucking audition for The Voice was, like, here. My gyno visit is here. If anything weird occurs, like, people with good intention can just say things uncomfortable and awkward. I don't have the mental capacity; but all I know is afterwards, I'm getting a sweet treat and I'll tell you how it goes. So fucking pray for me.

I had a difficult experience at work today. A coworker consistently misgenders me despite my efforts to correct her. I finally snapped and yelled at her. My boss, who claims to create a positive environment, sided with her and accused me of making a political statement. It's frustrating that even within our own community, there is transphobia. My coworker, who identifies as bisexual, should understand the pain of being judged. My boss and coworker told me to be more compassionate and move on. Feeling overwhelmed, I left and came to the beach. It's tough to be open about my identity and stand up for myself without being seen as either a pushover or overly emotional.

The speaker contacted the Disc Golf Pro Tour to request an earlier tee time to avoid a planned protest, suggesting a time slot with only three players. This request was refused. The speaker then asked to be moved to the MPO division, but this was also refused. During the conversation, the speaker was told by a Disc Golf Pro Tour staff member that they had misgendered Natalie Ryan and that disciplinary action would be taken if it happened again. The staff member initially pretended not to hear the misgendering. The speaker declined to name the specific staff member.

My pronouns are they/them, but for this meeting, I'm sharing that I use she/they/him. This often leads to complex discussions about gender, which we don't typically have. I once asked my father, "Do you know what it means to be a man?" He said no. Then, "Do you know what it means to be a woman?" Again, he said no. And that's where I'm at too. My womanhood isn't defined by childbearing or feminine behavior, and my manhood isn't about my genitalia. Understanding gender identity is a key part of being in the LGBTQ community.

I had a tough morning at the physical therapy office. I was misgendered despite telling them my pronouns. I also had to explain multiple times that I couldn't do an exercise that made me uncomfortable due to gender dysphoria. I got upset, cried softly, and asked to leave. I just want to feel cared for and respected at the doctor's office. I'm tired and had a rough morning, so I'm going to focus on doing nice things for myself today. I have some tasks related to my legal name change and might get my nails done. It's going to be a low effort day because this situation really sucks. Goodbye.

I was misgendered three times in 24 hours at restaurants. At Benihana, the server referred to me as "sir," and my girlfriend corrected her, but the server didn't understand and insisted she was talking to me. We left because of the uncomfortable vibe. Later, at another restaurant, I was again called "sir," and after correcting them, I left feeling uncomfortable. At a third restaurant, I asked for the bathroom and was again called "sir," so I left once more. Servers in the food industry can be respectful without using gendered terms. Misgendering affects my day negatively, especially when it happens repeatedly.

The speaker recounts an incident where a Delta employee intentionally misgenders them multiple times. The speaker confronts the employee, who apologizes but denies intentionality. The speaker warns the employee about their condescending behavior and threatens to have them escorted out of the building. The speaker ultimately decides to let the matter go and proceeds with their own actions.

I'm Livo, and I underwent top surgery 9 months ago. Getting ready used to be a struggle for me due to dysphoria, often leading to meltdowns. However, things have changed now, and it has become my favorite part of the day. Top surgery has been my most significant act of self-care.

I saw a man shaving in the women's bathroom at Planet Fitness. He identifies as a woman, and I support him in Christ. However, I feel uncomfortable with him using the women's bathroom. He is a spiritual being experiencing life as a human, and he wants to change his gender. Just wanted to share my thoughts. Translation: I saw a man shaving in the women's bathroom at Planet Fitness. He identifies as a woman, and I support him in Christ. However, I feel uncomfortable with him using the women's bathroom. He is a spiritual being experiencing life as a human, and he wants to change his gender. Just wanted to share my thoughts.

I'm starting a new teaching job and I'm non-binary, unsure whether to be called mister, missus, or mix. I worry about explaining my identity to 4-year-olds. Another person questions my ability to teach young kids due to my gender identity. They believe I should prioritize clarity for the children over my own comfort. They criticize my uncertainty and changing pronouns, emphasizing the importance of consistency. Despite their concerns, they acknowledge my kindness but urge me to consider the impact of my identity on my students.

I was misgendered at work, left early, and have been struggling since. Someone criticized my reaction, saying in New York, weakness isn't tolerated. They questioned the authenticity of my distress, noting my smile.

I played tennis in my conservative town and a man made a transphobic joke. I confronted him, explained I'm non binary, and use they/them pronouns. He was taken aback and quiet. I believe our interaction will make him think twice about making such jokes in the future. I'm glad I spoke up, as I usually let offensive comments slide, but I want to do better.

My name is Tisha Roby, and I am non-binary. I use they/them pronouns. Pronouns are important to me, so please use them correctly. If you make a mistake, I will politely correct you. Let's make sure we get it right every time. If you have any questions, we can discuss it later.

Microaggressions and misgendering deeply affect trans people in every aspect of life. In a recent film intensive audition, I discussed my identity as a gender fluid actor and the importance of inclusive spaces for queer narratives. However, one of the administrators repeatedly misgendered me in an email, despite my pronouns being clearly stated in multiple places. This forced me to correct her in front of her boss, creating an uncomfortable power dynamic. Depending on her response, it could either be a non-issue or put me at a disadvantage. Cis people don't have to deal with this, and it's not difficult to use someone's correct pronouns, especially when typing them out.

I am a non-binary middle school special education teacher. Only my two paraprofessionals know about my gender identity, as I am not ready to discuss it with parents and administration. Recently, one of my students referred to me as a beautiful king, which brought me immense joy and validation. It made me experience gender euphoria. Have a great day.

The speaker criticizes the medical industry and doctors for their lack of knowledge and understanding regarding trans rights and gender affirming care. They address a person named Barbara who suggests treating them as a female. The speaker, a trans guy, explains that they have undergone surgery and hormone therapy, which has transformed their body. They argue that it is dangerous and transphobic for Barbara to insist on treating them as a female. The speaker plans to report Barbara to the medical board for negligence and ignorance, emphasizing the importance of treating people based on their actual bodies and identities.

I got kicked out of a gender reveal party for joking about the baby's gender not sticking in 10 years. Grandma got upset and left. I bought them a pride onesie from Target.

A person recounts an incident where a Delta employee intentionally misgendered them multiple times. The person confronts the employee, who denies it was intentional. The person warns the employee about their authority to escort them out of the building if they continue. The person decides to ignore the situation and puts on something.

Today is gender reassignment day. I’m assigning new genders and pronouns. Jimmy, you’re now she/her. Carlos, you’re Carla, she/they. Rebecca, those shoes are non-binary. Jack, you’re now Jackie, she/her. Everyone at this table is non-binary. Sam, you’re non-binary Sam. Chad, you remain a Chad. Are you all happy with your genders? No? Too bad! For homework, if you’re a guy, listen to Nickelback and Joe Rogan. If you’re a woman, just keep being a woman. Non-binary folks, I expect colored hair by Monday. Thank you!

I was confronted by a neighbor for using the women's restroom, despite being a trans woman named Kaylee for over four years. I had stomach issues and needed to use the single-use bathroom, which I felt was safe. The neighbor insisted I was a man and repeatedly misgendered me. I lost my composure and screamed in frustration, feeling that my home should be a safe space. My friends, instead of supporting me, blamed me for escalating the situation, which was deeply hurtful. I felt triggered and unsupported, realizing these friends weren't the ones I needed. It’s disheartening to face such hostility, especially in a place meant to feel safe.

I was at UT Austin where I encountered transgender pro Palestine protesters. I questioned if Palestine mistreats trans people. The protesters were offended and refused to engage. I expressed disbelief that gay rights and support for Palestine could coexist. The situation escalated with insults exchanged.

Speaker 0 describes that their father still messes up pronouns, and they occasionally misgender themselves, then asks what to do if you happen to get someone's pronouns. Speaker 1 responds with a hostile assertion: "Funny you would ask because, you know, I rail on this a lot. Just because you have a mental illness and you think your penis is a vagina, you like to wear lipstick and eyeliner and a dress. Well, that's a mental illness. You're a man and there is not a damn thing you can do to convince me to call you a girl. You are a classic example of a mentally ill perverted man." End of comment. End of statement.

A speaker questions why a two-year-old child was asked about gender identity and preferred pronouns at a pediatric appointment, pointing out the child's age and limited understanding.

I encountered a man in the women's locker room at Planet Fitness, causing concern for a young girl present. Despite raising the issue, the gym defended the man's presence. I expressed my discomfort and intention to involve the police. Thanked the staff for canceling my membership. Encouraged others to speak out against such situations.