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I'm leaving my favorite spa, Island Spa and Sauna in Edison, New Jersey, after eight years of visiting. It's my refuge for relaxation. Today, after my usual routine, I unexpectedly encountered a trans woman in the women's bathhouse, which shocked me. I felt violated because I was seen naked without my consent. The staff explained they couldn't ask her to leave due to New Jersey law, and I was overwhelmed with emotion. My safe space felt unsafe in an instant. The manager offered to comp my admission and food, but I still felt embarrassed and uncomfortable. I’ve been a loyal customer, and now I’m confused about my feelings. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Speaker 0 asks Speaker 1 for some history regarding their gender dysphoria to help with writing a letter. Speaker 1 explains that when they were in school, they wrote an essay expressing their discomfort with their biological sex and how they felt. However, people dismissed their feelings because they appeared to be male.

I'm a trans guy. I've never been to the gynecologist. Today's the fucking day. I asked that they put a note on it: this is a trans guy; he's gonna present male. I called today to make sure the note's on my chart. She said, "The notes on your chart that you're, a trans man and blah blah blah." Okay. Cool. Have a good day, miss Allen. She works at a women's health clinic, and my name is fucking Sasha. Jesus Christ, guys. Full transparency, I'm tweaking out. My anxiety for my fucking audition for The Voice was, like, here. My gyno visit is here. If anything weird occurs, like, people with good intention can just say things uncomfortable and awkward. I don't have the mental capacity; but all I know is afterwards, I'm getting a sweet treat and I'll tell you how it goes. So fucking pray for me.

I had a difficult experience at work today. A coworker consistently misgenders me despite my efforts to correct her. I finally snapped and yelled at her. My boss, who claims to create a positive environment, sided with her and accused me of making a political statement. It's frustrating that even within our own community, there is transphobia. My coworker, who identifies as bisexual, should understand the pain of being judged. My boss and coworker told me to be more compassionate and move on. Feeling overwhelmed, I left and came to the beach. It's tough to be open about my identity and stand up for myself without being seen as either a pushover or overly emotional.

The speaker contacted the Disc Golf Pro Tour to request an earlier tee time to avoid a planned protest, suggesting a time slot with only three players. This request was refused. The speaker then asked to be moved to the MPO division, but this was also refused. During the conversation, the speaker was told by a Disc Golf Pro Tour staff member that they had misgendered Natalie Ryan and that disciplinary action would be taken if it happened again. The staff member initially pretended not to hear the misgendering. The speaker declined to name the specific staff member.

I'm trans, and I'm worried about the trans community. Some say my TikTok skits are why people don't take us seriously and blame us for issues in the economy and society. It feels heavy, but I accept it. It’s important to recognize how silly those comments sound. People need to relax—maybe drink some tea or take a bath. Internalized bigotry isn’t helping anyone. Despite the negativity, I still care about you and will support you if things get tough, even if you don’t return the favor. Thank you, and have a good day.

Today is National Coming Out Day, and I'm excited to announce that I'm going back on testosterone. I loved being on it before, but needed to connect with my emotional body. I had to unwind trauma from being read as a man and sacrificing parts of myself. I now embrace my femininity and look forward to exploring it on a testosterone-dominant body. I feel a new wave of expression and excitement for this journey ahead. Cheers to new beginnings!

I feel terrible after the humiliation I experienced today. Being put in leg chains for my words from 3 years ago is unimaginable. They want to silence us by targeting our speech. I need time to process and write down my thoughts before sharing with the world. This has been tough.

I will be hanging out with the daughters of my mom's friend while they have a meeting. Jazz is an inspiration as a transgender role model. She shared her surgery experience honestly. Charlie plans to have surgery after high school due to bullying. I recently had surgery with complications, but now I feel great. Stitches came apart a week after surgery, causing pain and distress.

I was misgendered three times in 24 hours at restaurants. At Benihana, the server referred to me as "sir," and my girlfriend corrected her, but the server didn't understand and insisted she was talking to me. We left because of the uncomfortable vibe. Later, at another restaurant, I was again called "sir," and after correcting them, I left feeling uncomfortable. At a third restaurant, I asked for the bathroom and was again called "sir," so I left once more. Servers in the food industry can be respectful without using gendered terms. Misgendering affects my day negatively, especially when it happens repeatedly.

The speaker recounts an incident where a Delta employee intentionally misgenders them multiple times. The speaker confronts the employee, who apologizes but denies intentionality. The speaker warns the employee about their condescending behavior and threatens to have them escorted out of the building. The speaker ultimately decides to let the matter go and proceeds with their own actions.

I'm Livo, and I underwent top surgery 9 months ago. Getting ready used to be a struggle for me due to dysphoria, often leading to meltdowns. However, things have changed now, and it has become my favorite part of the day. Top surgery has been my most significant act of self-care.

I saw a man shaving in the women's bathroom at Planet Fitness. He identifies as a woman, and I support him in Christ. However, I feel uncomfortable with him using the women's bathroom. He is a spiritual being experiencing life as a human, and he wants to change his gender. Just wanted to share my thoughts. Translation: I saw a man shaving in the women's bathroom at Planet Fitness. He identifies as a woman, and I support him in Christ. However, I feel uncomfortable with him using the women's bathroom. He is a spiritual being experiencing life as a human, and he wants to change his gender. Just wanted to share my thoughts.

I'm starting a new teaching job and I'm non-binary, unsure whether to be called mister, missus, or mix. I worry about explaining my identity to 4-year-olds. Another person questions my ability to teach young kids due to my gender identity. They believe I should prioritize clarity for the children over my own comfort. They criticize my uncertainty and changing pronouns, emphasizing the importance of consistency. Despite their concerns, they acknowledge my kindness but urge me to consider the impact of my identity on my students.

I was misgendered at work, left early, and have been struggling since. Someone criticized my reaction, saying in New York, weakness isn't tolerated. They questioned the authenticity of my distress, noting my smile.

I went to physical therapy at 7 in the morning and got misgendered by someone I had already told my pronouns to. I reminded them that my pronouns are they/them, and they acknowledged it. However, I had to repeatedly explain to my physical therapist that I didn't want to do an exercise that made me uncomfortable due to gender dysphoria.

I played tennis in my conservative town and a man made a transphobic joke. I confronted him, explained I'm non binary, and use they/them pronouns. He was taken aback and quiet. I believe our interaction will make him think twice about making such jokes in the future. I'm glad I spoke up, as I usually let offensive comments slide, but I want to do better.

Microaggressions and misgendering deeply affect trans people in every aspect of life. In a recent film intensive audition, I discussed my identity as a gender fluid actor and the importance of inclusive spaces for queer narratives. However, one of the administrators repeatedly misgendered me in an email, despite my pronouns being clearly stated in multiple places. This forced me to correct her in front of her boss, creating an uncomfortable power dynamic. Depending on her response, it could either be a non-issue or put me at a disadvantage. Cis people don't have to deal with this, and it's not difficult to use someone's correct pronouns, especially when typing them out.

I am a non-binary middle school special education teacher. Only my two paraprofessionals know about my gender identity, as I am not ready to discuss it with parents and administration. Recently, one of my students referred to me as a beautiful king, which brought me immense joy and validation. It made me experience gender euphoria. Have a great day.

The speaker criticizes the medical industry and doctors for their lack of knowledge and understanding regarding trans rights and gender affirming care. They address a person named Barbara who suggests treating them as a female. The speaker, a trans guy, explains that they have undergone surgery and hormone therapy, which has transformed their body. They argue that it is dangerous and transphobic for Barbara to insist on treating them as a female. The speaker plans to report Barbara to the medical board for negligence and ignorance, emphasizing the importance of treating people based on their actual bodies and identities.

A person recounts an incident where a Delta employee intentionally misgendered them multiple times. The person confronts the employee, who denies it was intentional. The person warns the employee about their authority to escort them out of the building if they continue. The person decides to ignore the situation and puts on something.

I was confronted by a neighbor for using the women's restroom, despite being a trans woman named Kaylee for over four years. I had stomach issues and needed to use the single-use bathroom, which I felt was safe. The neighbor insisted I was a man and repeatedly misgendered me. I lost my composure and screamed in frustration, feeling that my home should be a safe space. My friends, instead of supporting me, blamed me for escalating the situation, which was deeply hurtful. I felt triggered and unsupported, realizing these friends weren't the ones I needed. It’s disheartening to face such hostility, especially in a place meant to feel safe.

I regret getting a sex change. My hole is infected and smells terrible. I feel like taking my own life. I think I'll get more attention than gay people. Some men can become women by trading their genitals, but it's not worth it because it smells bad. There's a global mission to change genitals, even for minors. I used to be named Craig, but now I'm a new girl with a Y chromosome. I got brainwashed by the internet and now I'm stuck with this regret. I should have just stayed gay.

Today is a tough day emotionally. I'm reflecting on how much I miss my patients and the feeling of being a human. Part of me has accepted the situation, but another part is stubbornly resisting, and that's what I'm struggling with right now. Check out my shirt! My mother-in-law brought it over. It's a 1992 Snoop Dogg shirt that says "Ain't nothing but a G thing, baby." I look like I'm ready to play tennis. My hair is growing back in, though. I'm a mess.

I just changed the gender on my Florida driver's license to male. This was the final step in updating all my documents, which wasn't easy due to state restrictions. Here’s the loophole: if you replace your driver's license instead of renewing it, they must use a primary document for information. A passport, which allows self-identification, qualifies. I showed them my female passport, and after some deliberation, they updated my license. It was nerve-wracking, especially in a hostile environment. On my way out, someone yelled a derogatory comment at me, but I’m proud of my new license, which is valid for ten years. Wishing all trans people an easy time with their documents this December.