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@HazelAppleyard_ - Hazel Appleyard
Stop letting solo & pairs of males from purchasing babies immediately. https://t.co/7wp58FVm2G
reSee.it AI Summary
The author reflects on their experience of medical transition, realizing that it was presented as a solution to internal struggles. They highlight the case of a gay man who, influenced by internalized homophobia and undiagnosed mental health issues, underwent transition and now suffers from physical complications. The individual is unable to detransition and remains a lifelong medical patient. The author mentions another person, @NotScottNewgent, who also regrets their transition.
@HazelAppleyard_ - Hazel Appleyard
“I realise now that medical transition was sold to me as a hardware fix for software issues.” Honestly that’s the best way of putting it that I’ve EVER SEEN. This gay man, with internalised h°m°phobia and a ton of undiagnosed mental health conditions, was missold transition and now is in constant pain due to osteoporosis and scoliosis caused by transition, and has non functional gen1talia. He’s a medical patient for life. He is a trans regretter, too far along in the process to detransition - much like @NotScottNewgent.
Video Transcript AI Summary
Shay, a transgender individual, shares their personal journey of transitioning. They initially identified as a feminine gay man before researching transgender ideology and deciding to transition. They underwent hormone therapy, facial feminization, and breast augmentation surgeries. However, the hormonal changes negatively affected their mental health, and they experienced complications with their surgically created vagina. They also discovered they had complex PTSD, body dysmorphia, OCD, borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and internalized homophobia. Shay started detransitioning by taking testosterone but faced challenges due to their nonfunctional genitals. They now rely on synthetic hormones and feel stuck in a surgically altered body. They advocate for stricter regulations on medical transitioning, including comprehensive psychological evaluations and informed consent.
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Speaker 0: Hi. My name is Shay. I started identifying as transgender at 22 while still in college. Before that, I was just a feminine gay man. Being asked about my pronouns led me to research transgender ideology, and pretty quickly, I got convinced that I was transgender woman.
I was able to get hormones relatively easily through Fenway Health and was only on them for a year before receiving facial feminization and breast augmentation surgeries at 20 Taking hormones actually worsened my mental health, but therapists saw that it was because I was stuck in a wrong body. They cleared me for sex reassignment surgery by nosy me with gender identity disorder. Immediately after SRS, I was super excited to start a new life. I was happy for a few months while recovering. However, soon I realized that my new part wasn't what doctors promised me.
My new vagina started constricting despite rigorous dilation which resulted in me developing vaginal stenosis. This left me unable to have penetrative sex which adversely impacted my mental health. I also lost my sex drive, my motivation to achieve anything and became brain fogged and lethargic. I had multiple unsuccessful revisions attempting to get a few inches of neovaginal tunnel. I even had colon vaginoplasty.
The last revision was at the University of Miami by doctor Cristobal Salgado in 2018, and his left to me was a colorectal fistula. I've been all over the country trying to seek help but I have received none. Earlier this year after hitting rock bottom with my depression, I reached out to a new therapist. This therapist helped me realize that I had complex PTSD from a traumatic childhood. And also pointed out that I have body dysmorphia, OCD, borderline personality on bipolar disorders.
I also realized I had internalized homophobia. I realize now that medical transition was sold to me as a hardware fix for software issues. A few months ago, I started detransitioning by taking testosterone. However, it is traumatic to be on testosterone without having functional genitals. Moreover, my back hurts every day due to osteoporosis and scoliosis that I developed post SRS.
I'm now dependent on synthetic hormones to for life. I traded my perfectly healthy genitals for Official 1 inch tunnel that is sexually nonfunctional. I realized that I'm never getting back a functional penis, and full due transition is not really possible in my Case. I feel stuck in a surgically created body. I believe nobody under 18 should be allowed to medically transition.
Sex reassignment surgery should only be allowed in very rare cases after a full psych evaluations. Patients should be made aware that what they're really getting is a cosmetic surgery, and it's a general approximation surgery that does not change by Logical sex. Thank you.
Speaker 1: If you would like to help Shape and other detransitioners hold their providers accountable in a court of law, please consider contributing to their legal expenses. You can do so by visiting www.transitionjustice.org. Thank you.
@HazelAppleyard_ - Hazel Appleyard
This is before the pink news kid came out as trans This is how she raised this autistic kid.
reSee.it AI Summary
In this heartfelt account, I share my experience with an abusive ex who now identifies as a woman. The fear and violence I endured for years were unimaginable. It raises concerns about men accessing women's spaces. Please watch and share this eye-opening video. #GenderIdentity #WomenSafety
@HazelAppleyard_ - Hazel Appleyard
I’m not in a good place today. This is the story of my abusive ex who now identifies as a woman. He strangled me dozens upon dozens of times over 2 years and I thought he was going to kill me. He now identifies as a woman. I assume he now thinks he is welcome in women’s spaces. Please watch this video and share. These are the types of men who are accessing women’s spaces. @jk_rowling @glinner @Riley_Gaines_ @theposieparker
Video Transcript AI Summary
The speaker shares their experience with their abusive ex, who now identifies as a woman. They recount the physical abuse they endured, including being strangled multiple times. Despite reporting the abuse to the police, nothing came of it. The speaker expresses their anger towards their ex and the fact that they are now praised for being brave. They argue against allowing violent individuals into women's spaces and express their hope for karma to catch up with their ex. The speaker concludes by urging others to continue fighting against this issue.
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Speaker 0: I'm in a really shitty fucking place at the moment because my ex, my abusive ex, Identify us as a woman now. This isn't news to me. I've known this for a while. He Came out as a woman 2 years ago. But I think the fact that I've been online active in the The turf community is making me think about it in all other fucking way.
I met this guy when I was 18. He was 16, but he was still bigger than me. He was a big guy. He was taller than me. He's wider than me.
A whole fuckton was stronger than me. And for almost 2 years, he he must have Strangled me over a 100 times. Left me with PTSD. He put his hands around my throat. Squeeze until I.
Till the world was going black around me. And every time The light would start to fade, and I'd think, maybe this is the time that he's finally gonna kill me. And I finally I told him In April 2012, that if he ever hurt me again, It was over. He didn't until August when we were, on holiday abroad. And he I got in
Speaker 1: an argument, and He chased me up
Speaker 0: the hotel stairs. I went into the hotel room and I tried lock myself in the bathroom, but it was one of those ones you can open from the outside with, like, a coin. He opened it.
Speaker 1: He came in after me and he pushed me against the
Speaker 0: wall and he strangled me against the wall for, you know, God knows how many times it had happened before then, but that was the last time. If I'd known all I know now About the the fact that breaking up with a violent man increases the likelihood that he will kill you, I wouldn't have broken up with him right then and there in a hotel room in a foreign country with no one around. I would have waited, but I told him, as soon as his hands are off
Speaker 1: my throat, that's it. We're done.
Speaker 0: I had to fly back with him back to England. And I said goodbye to him at the airport, and I never saw him again. This was 2012, so it's 11 years ago now, but I reported him to the police and he denied it all, of course. So nothing came of it. Didn't make it to court.
But this this man, this violent man And if you didn't know this, if a person if a if a abusive partner strangles somebody, that's an indication that They're 800% more likely to kill you. So I look back at that, and I think, How the fuck did I ever live? How did I live? How did I not die?
Speaker 1: I felt so lucky to ever skate alive because I know not everybody does. But this man now calls himself a woman, and Everyone tells him how fucking brave he is. And I don't know for sure, but I can only assume But now he thinks he's entitled to be in women's spaces, to be in women's bathrooms with young girls with children. With vulnerable women. I never thought about it that way before yesterday.
It's violent. Violet, man. Everyone tells him. He's so brave. This is so wonderful.
Well, I have to live with what you did to me. I have to live with the fact my brain has never been the same since he talked to me all those times. These are the kind of fucking men who want access to our safe spaces. Men like this wanna be in bathrooms with our children, With our daughters.
Speaker 0: He will never be a woman. His name is Matt. I will say his name. I will not say his Chosen fucking girl name. He can go die in a fucking fire.
I hope he
Speaker 1: does. So don't I'm fucking done. I'm done being kind to these people. Men accessing our spaces are they're abusing all of us. They're taking from us.
They're putting us at risk. Even the ones who really, really feel distressed about being trans are having gender dysphoria. Maybe there are some who don't mean any harm. But there are some who mean so much harm. And by laying men in women's spaces, we are Allowing these men these abusive, violent, fucking murderous men Into places with our children, with our daughters.
Speaker 0: With teenage girls
Speaker 1: Just just don't stop. Don't stop fighting against this sh fucking shit.
Speaker 0: Yeah. But you're not brave. You are a violent man. You are a very Fucking typical violent man. You are not a woman.
You will never be a fucking woman. I hope karma hits you really really fucking hard. You fucking piece of shit. You fucking cunt. I hope you fucking
Speaker 1: die. That's it.