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Saved - February 15, 2023 at 4:39 PM
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Leading a woman on when you're not ready for a commitment is a recipe for disaster. If she starts talking about other suitors, it's a sign that she's considering them. Women are loyal to their feelings, and if they don't align with your sacrifices, they won't stay. Be honest about your readiness and ask her what she wants. Don't pressure her to marry you if you're not ready, or you'll set yourself up for failure. Keep your promises and commitments, and don't deceive each other.

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

You may believe you're leading your woman right and also doing your best to give her hope. But you can't entirely fault her, if along the way, she starts to tell you that suitors are coming for her. Especially if she is aware that you're not ready and it will take a little

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

time and patience. So the whatsapp chat we are discussing can be looked at, in different ways. 1) The man was honest to his reality, knowing full well that he wasn't ready. So instead of leading her on, and taking the risks, he decided to let her go. 2) if he had decided not

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to let her go, is he sure of himself? Perhaps, he took the safer route to avoid being blamed tomorrow. He left didn't give her a choice to stay. 3) before a woman will start telling you that suitors are coming, she has already started considering them. 4) she may also have told

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

you, just so you can hasten up, and come to marry her, even if she knows you're not really ready. Always remember, relationship is a game and the smartest persons win. While you as a man, will wish to marry her, you must make sure you do it when you feel it's right. If you bow

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to the pressure when you're not ready, you'll set yourself up for failure. And after you get married, no one will listen to you, that she was the one who pressurized you, into marrying her. "Are you not a man?" That's the response you'll be getting from both her, & outsiders.

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

But one thing I'm very sure of, is that women are more loyal to their feelings than your sacrifices. If her feelings don't align with your sacrifices, she will not stay. And she will look for all justifiable reasons to leave you, and be unapologetic about it. So, that my wife

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

never told me that, doesn't mean your own girlfriend will not tell you. What you should do, is to throw the question back to her. "what do you want to do?" "you and I know I'm not ready now, so are you willing to wait?" Don't tell her to go ahead to marry just because you're

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

not ready. Chances are, that she wants to consider the suitor, but doesn't want to feel guilty about it. Or she needs you to assure her because truth be told, you're not the only one that is admiring her. Whether she tells you or not. Men still admire married women, how much

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

more a girlfriend? What you expect is for her to create boundaries for you, regardless. Before writing this thread, I had to ask my wife again.. "But why didn't you tell me about those suitors before we got married?" "Sweetie, it wasn't necessary because I was not considering

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them". Infact, I just found out today, that a Canadian based man was also amongst the suitors. He was in Canada at the time & already established. She didn't choose him & the reason is best known to her. Again, I've always said that everyone should be selfish with their

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

choices of choosing their spouses. Because it's expected that whomever you choose, you must become selfless in the marriage. You'll no longer see marrying your spouse, as doing him or her a favour. If both of you are not selfish for each other, then one person can decide to

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

look elsewhere. If your woman doesn't trust you enough to lead her, she will not stay. Women are gifted with foresight. A woman who believes in you, will wait for you & damn the consequences. If she wholeheartedly made you her choice, she will be willing to face whatever

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

outcomes the marriage brings. She will not tell you.. "you forced me to marry you" "I wish I married my ex" "I wish I considered my suitors" Why? Because marriage requires deliberate commitment. "I saw & I'm seeing other men, but I chose you. So I'll make sure we work".

@jon_d_doe - John Doe

In all you do in your relationship, ensure you're not deceiving each other. Whatever promises or commitments you've made, ensure you keep them. And ensure you're walking the talks. If she/he senses you're deceitful, then don't blame them when they choose to walk away. End.

Saved - February 18, 2023 at 6:37 AM
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Achieving success in your career doesn't have to come at the cost of your health, family, or happiness. Don't wait for "someday" to build a great life, define your ambition and create a lifestyle that brings you joy. Prune your life by setting boundaries and saying no to things that don't align with your goals. Divide and conquer with your partner to build a better life together. Consider being a one-job family to prioritize time and happiness over luxury and status.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Ignore the hustle porn. You don't have to sacrifice your health, family, or happiness to crush your career. You can make it all work without feeling tapped out. Here's how... (WARNING: Mega-🧵 with unpopular takes)

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

1️⃣Don’t wait for someday. We’ve all been guilty of what I call “someday thinking”: "Once the kids are older... Once I get that big promotion... Once my net worth is $X... THEN I'll build a great life." It’s a lie. That big goal on the horizon is a mirage. Because…

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Someday never comes. Life never gets easier, the challenges just change. Don’t kick the can down the road—build a great life now & play the long game. Over time you'll achieve more and you’ll be immeasurably happier along the way. The first step is to:

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2️⃣Define your ambition Most of us associate ambition with career. But that’s a narrow (and UN-ambitious) way to define it. The Oxford dictionary defines ambition as: "a strong desire to do or to achieve something, typically requiring determination and hard work."

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

🎯Ambition is like an arrow—it's aimed at *something*. What is YOUR something? Few people take the time to aim their arrow by searching their soul and defining their desired “end state” lifestyle. Instead they just plod forward with a vague sense of direction.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

I get a lot of DMs about this and my advice is always the same: ✍️Take the time to literally write out your desired “end state” lifestyle. What does it look like? WHAT would you do (and avoid doing)? WHO would you be around? WHERE would you be? (Here's my list👇)

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

DO base your list on what brings YOU joy & energy (and what steals it). DON’T base your list on OTHERS' definition of success. You might be surprised at the results. Most people discover that their desired lifestyle doesn’t require as much $ as they assumed.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

You might have noticed that my list doesn't include "drive a fancy car", "run a Fortune 500 company" or even "have a big social media following". Those things are all great (and I may do them all!) but they're nice-to-haves, not critical ingredients to the life I want.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Deep inside most of us have the same basic desires and yet... We put a ton of time and money into things that aren't on our lifestyle list—satisfying short term impulses rather than building toward our real ambition. Once you’ve gone through this exercise you’re ready to:

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3️⃣Prune your life TRUTH BOMB: 💣You’ll never have a great life if you don’t learn to say no. Whether you're broke or a billionaire, time is zero sum. Each of us has the same 24 hours each day and spending time on one thing directly takes away from another.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Nobody can do more than 2 or 3 things with excellence and you’re not built different. I'll use myself as an example: Beyond work, climbing, & family I don't do much else.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Over the years—as I've gained financial freedom & control of my time—I've deliberately pruned my life to make room for more of the things I value most: ✂️I work from home—so I can be ever-present for family and avoid wasting hours each week commuting.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

✂️I relocated to live 5 minutes from the rock—to pursue my passion without being gone for days at a time. ✂️I outsource time-consuming tasks I don’t enjoy (e.g. lawn care). ✂️I watch very little TV. These are just a few examples. Pruning is a never-ended process but...

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

...the payoff is huge: It quickly adds up to 10 or 20 hours reclaimed each week. Congrats, you solved your busyness problem! (Note: I'm far from perfect. For example, I spend an embarrassing amount of time here on twitter—often at the expense of family time.)

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Pruning will look different for everyone but know this: It really is true that less is more. Contrary to popular belief minimalism isn't about sacrifice—it's the exact opposite. It's about removing clutter to make room for MORE of the life you really want.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

4️⃣Boundaries, not balance. I dislike the term "work/life balance" because it implies trade-offs, settling for mediocrity. I say: DON'T seek balance, but DO set boundaries. Working hard is a given—it's the only path to success & happiness—but remember this:

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

“Switching gears” helps you accomplish MORE, not less. Whatever you do, do it with intensity and then step away to rest & recover or find inspiration through other pursuits. This is where hustle pornsters have it all wrong👇

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

It’s not a matter of opinion—we know the ingredients for optimal human performance. You’re not built different and there are no cheat codes. Compromising critical factors like sleep & exercise is literally stealing from yourself. It’s counter-productive and… just plain dumb.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Again, working hard is a given but those who build a multi-faceted life, set boundaries, and are deliberate about recovering from intense effort will: —Do more work over time —Do better work —Be a lot happier along the way

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

The next two (5 & 6) are for folks with a spouse & kids. Having a family adds a lot of complexity to life but done right it can be a 1+1=3.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

5️⃣Divide & conquer. Marriage is more than just romance—it’s about building a life that is better together than apart. As in business it’s best to have a partner with complimentary skills so you can divide & conquer. It’s different for everyone but for us it means:

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

💁‍♀️My wife focuses mostly inward on home & family 💁‍♂️I focus mostly outward on business & money 🤝We both think we got the better deal I see a lot of young couples doing the opposite—they try to share all responsibilities equally.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

IMO this is misguided—a recipe for never-ending busyness (and lots of arguments). You’re equal partners but that doesn’t mean you should play the same roles. A simple example of dividing & conquering:

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

In 25 years together my wife & I have spent almost no time talking about money. I’m the CFO and she trusts me with that responsibility. Likewise, she’s the COO and I don't meddle in family ops. It's weight off each of our shoulders.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Get the “business stuff” done as efficiently as possible and save your time together for more meaningful things like parenting, creative projects, and shared adventures. The bottom line: 👉If you & your partner can't divide & conquer it’s hard to build a great life. Related…

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

6️⃣Consider being a 1-job family. This last one might be unpopular & old-fashioned but hear me out… Before you 🙄 & think, "must be nice to be able to afford that" know this: My wife & I made this decision over 20 years ago when we had a negative net worth and low-paying jobs.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

We agreed early on that we'd rather have less money and more sanity. In the early years it involved sacrifice: We lived in low-rent homes, drove beater cars, skipped exotic vacations, and didn’t purchase luxuries. Sadly…

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

These days people seem to value luxury & status more than their time. They trade huge chunks of time for a lifestyle that looks great on Instagram but keeps them on the treadmill. Remember, time is the ultimate luxury.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Here's a tangible example of time as luxury: My wife has always been able to spend many hours each week planning and preparing great, healthy meals for the family. She enjoys it and it's a top priority for both of us—a huge key to quality of life (& health) for our family.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Living on one full-time income may not be possible for you right now but it can be a goal to work toward. TBH many couples could do it now but they fear the sacrifices involved. I'd bet that the vast majority single-job couples with kids would say it's worth the sacrifice.

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

If you both have highly fulfilling careers and *want* to work full time maybe you embrace the insanity—but recognize that it comes with consequences. But that's pretty rare—it’s not what most people want. Also hear this:

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Being the stay-at-home parent doesn't mean you can't seek intellectual stimulation, utilize your education & skills, or even make big money. 👉It simply means a job isn't the *primary organizing thing* in your life—the family is. What a privilege!

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

Most people find that becoming a 1-job family pays off in unexpected ways: —The primary wage earner becomes more effective —New opportunities appear that weren’t visible before —Everyone is happier! (what’s the $ value of that?)

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

I don't have all the answers but this is what has worked for my family. Take what works for you, ignore the rest! TL;DR 1) Don't wait for someday 2) Define your ambition 3) Prune your life 4) Boundaries, not balance 5) Divide & conquer 6) Consider being a 1-job family

@Camp4 - Kevin Dahlstrom

This 🧵 took a ton of thought & time to write. If you got value from it I'd appreciate a like and retweet of the first tweet (below). Follow me @camp4 for more on money, life, and rock climbing. https://t.co/3cvbERfBzJ

Saved - April 12, 2023 at 1:13 AM
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Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it's important to know how to navigate it in a healthy way. Start by identifying your conflict type and creating a conflict plan with your partner. Speak for yourself using "I" statements and ask questions to understand. Remember to recognize your partner's inner child and stay neutral to avoid creating more reactivity. After a conflict, ask your partner what they need to feel safe. Practice these skills and watch your relationship shift.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

Your partner goes into emotional reactivity. Next, you become reactive and a cycle begins where you say and do things you regret. Few people know how to fight. How To Fight In A Healthy Way (A Complete Guide):

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All relationships have conflict. Conflict is part of life. Learning how to navigate and resolve conflict is one of life’s most important skills.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

How To Fight In A Healthy Way: We all have different needs in conflict: we tend to believe that everyone responds the way we do, and what's the things we do. This isn't true.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

1. Start by Identifying YOUR conflict type: The Avoider: - wants to hide or shut down during conflict - struggles to communicate or find words for feelings - becomes highly emotionally flooded (might start crying uncontrollably)

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- can't do anything else until conflict is resolved - can have conversations even when stressed or overwhelmed

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

Next, sit with your partner and share your conflict types. You may have similar conflict types, but it's more common to have opposite types.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

2. Create A Conflict Plan: A conflict plan is how you'll solve conflict, together based on your conflict type. If your partner is an avoider who needs space, and you're a fixer who want to hash things out immediately, find a middle ground.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

Examples: - If one of us is really emotionally flooded we’ll have a “break word” that means it's time to pause - When we’re both activated, we go to separate areas of the house for 30 minutes to calm down.

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3. Speak For Yourself: Conflict resolution in relationships (called repair) words best when we’re using “I” statements. Ex: “I felt like I wasn’t being considered.”

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Instead of “you” statements that put our partner on the defensive. Ex: “You never consider me, you’re so selfish.”

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

4. Ask Questions To Understand: mature communication is about asking questions, rather than making assumptions. Get curious. Ex: “So, what you’re saying is x, is that right?” “Next time you want me to get you first, would that help?”

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

5. Recognize their inner child: you’re not just talking to your partner, you’re talking to younger, hurt versions of them. Keep this in mind, and have empathy.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

6. Neutralize: reacting to someone creates more reactivity. Stay grounded. Take deep breaths. Try not to take everything personal. If you do go into fight or flight and can’t stay neutral, it’s time to take a break.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

7. Ask: “What do you need right now?” After a conflict, ask your partner what they need to come back together and feel safe. Ex: physical touch, verbal reassurance, or doing an activity you love together.

@Theholisticpsyc - Dr. Nicole LePera

Bookmark this thread and share with your partner. Start to practice. Your entire relationship will shift. Join (@selfhealerscirc) a community of people doing the work from around the world https://selfhealerscircle.com/waitlist/

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@JeffYoungerShow - Jeff Younger

Young men, do not marry. The laws allow wives to destroy you and your kids. Over half the time, they do it.

Saved - September 8, 2023 at 3:08 PM
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At the airport, a man in his 60s praised a book I was reading. We struck up a conversation about his journey from Harvard MBA to investment banking, followed by an existential crisis at 35. He found himself, met his wife, and built successful businesses. What amazed me was his admiration for his wife, who he described as the most impressive woman he's ever met. He emphasized the importance of finding a life partner who inspires and supports you. He showed me countless pictures of their family vacations worldwide. Truly inspiring! #CoupleGoals

@ellebeecher - elle ⚡️

I’m at the airport reading, and a man in his ~60s walks by me and says: “Great book. Wish I had it earlier.” So I ask, “Really? Why?” That sparked a convo about how he went from Harvard MBA to investment banking in NYC… to an existential crisis at 35 where he lost himself, gave it all up, found himself, met his wife, and built multiple business. What stuck with me the most is how he talked about his wife. He just LIT up. “If you think I’ve had an interesting life, you should meet my wife! She’d blow you away. She blows everyone away. She’s the most impressive woman I’ve ever met. She’s my linchpin.” Me: “What advice would you give for choosing a life partner?” Him: “If you have a big vision and want a big life, you need someone who knocks your socks off. It’s gotta feel like winning the lottery. This person is your #1 advice giver. Your lifelong backup. Your companion for thousands of meals, events, problems. You need someone better than you in a lot of ways. Whose mind and heart amaze you. I wake up every day like, ‘How on earth did I land her?’ She says the same thing. That’s when you know.” Then he showed me like 300 pictures of them and their kids on vacation around the world. Couple goals.

Saved - October 28, 2023 at 10:55 PM
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In a community, a woman received a generous birthday gift of 200k from her husband. However, when he asked for a loan of 20k, she refused and repaired her phone without informing him. This decision caused tension in their relationship. It is crucial for women to understand that a man's ego is tied to his ability to provide for his family. By taking on the provider role, women may unknowingly harm their marriage. It is important to support men without disarming their ego. Communication and understanding are key to maintaining a healthy relationship.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

It was in this community that a married woman was gifted 200k for her birthday by her husband. The husband later asked her to lend him 20k but she didn't give him. She then went ahead to repair her faulty phone without telling her husband. But he asked her for 20k and she

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she didn't give him. She never thought she did anything wrong. Her husband wasn't pleased with her decision and he started acting up. Then she ran to me for advice. I told her that she should not have done that especially when he asked her for money. And that her husband

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knew her phone was faulty and he had it in mind to fix it for her but she should be patient. I then advised her on what to do. A few weeks later, she returned to give feedback. It worked. Do I know her? Do I live with them? Do I know her husband? She was grateful because

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she had initially thought it was no big deal. No, it's a big deal. The fact that some men won't talk immediately does not mean they're okay with it. On the trending video of the woman whose husband abandoned her and their two kids. In her words, she said she was the provider

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and she felt it was perfectly okay to do that. She also said that she felt she had money to buy a car and she bought it in her name without first seeking her husband's views. That was the first time she noticed his negative reaction but she thought nothing of it at the time.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

Now, what has happened to her marriage? It has been crashed. First, she sounded like her husband was a lazy man. I've repeatedly said that women should enable lazy men. Now, let's even say he's not a lazy man. I can bet you, the same thing was likely going to happen. I need

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women to understand these things. A man's ego is his weapon and his provision is his shield. It's why when a man is incapable of providing for his family, he feels incomplete & sometimes, depressed. The last thing any responsible husband would wish for is to see his wife

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

being the provider. To avoid this, men must live within their means. If a woman feels she can assist him, she must do so with wisdom without disarming him (ego). It's why I said a wise wife will lead from behind. She is making key decisions but making her husband lead from

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the front. A broke man who is not lazy will never be comfortable seeing his wife play his role. If you don't apply wisdom during his downtimes, he would silently resent you & you'd make him feel incompetent. While you may think you're doing these things for "love", you're

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hurting your marriage. It starts with relationships. Learn how to recognize that your man will be the provider when you get married. Practice restraints and ego fanning & watch it work like magic. You can achieve peace and even get whatever you want from him if you

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know how to press his mumu button. A world where women think that just because they have their money then they can be independent will never work well for women. If you don't make your man feel that you can depend on him, he will start looking for women who can show him that.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

And by that, your marriage will start to see serious friction. That man you felt was hitherto okay with it, will one day explode & his next plan would be to make you crumble. If you are attentive to his mood & words, you'll know that trouble is looming. But you love him. End.

Saved - November 3, 2023 at 9:28 PM
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Working long hours with a team of over 20 is routine for me. Most of us are single and in our mid to late 20s. Sundays are our only rest day. Balancing work and personal life is challenging, especially for young professionals. Building a career requires dedication, leaving little time for serious relationships. However, it's important to seize free days to find a partner. Avoid messing things up and focus on genuine connections. When you're busy, maintaining a physical connection becomes difficult. Connect with someone during school or jobless days and vet them well. By the time others are searching for trust, you'll already be building a life together. Trust becomes harder to establish later on. Learn from others' experiences and don't waste opportunities. Assess your growth and make the most of the present. The best time to start is now.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

I was with my team from 8 a.m. today till 10 p.m. A team of over 20. This is quite routine for me & everyone has a task to deliver each day. 95% of them are single & in their mid & late 20s. Men & women. Tomorrow, we resume & it will be like that even on Saturday (sometimes)

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

The only rest day for us is Sunday. I didn't call my wife for up to 2 minutes. I didn't speak with my children throughout today & I'm not even with them & have been away for some weeks. I lead the team. As I retired tonight, it crossed my mind again that this is the reality

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of many 9-5ers. Early this year, it also crossed my mind & I wrote a thread advising young men who are working to make sure they find a girlfriend. You may wish to search for the thread to read for those of you that missed it. The reality of being lonely after school is

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depressing. You'll not have the luxury of time for a serious relationship. Both men and women. You're building a career and you need to make sure you excel at it. You have passed the stage where you can see your boyfriend or girlfriend & your neck and call. That stage is

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when you're still in school or jobless. You're chasing money & building your future. As much as I advise men & women not to abandon relationships whilst building their careers, it will be a lot easier if you seize the opportunity of your free days to find one. And when you do,

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do your best not to mess things up. And this goes especially to young girls. If you tame your greed, lies & deceit and focus on that young serious man, it will be easier for you to find a spouse before you're 30. You'll understand it when he's busy and hardly has the time

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

for you like he used to. Except both of you are cohabiting. Phone calls are good but nothing can be compared to a physical connection. Your job will hardly give you such an opportunity. Now that you're in school, connect with that young man/woman & do all your vetting & lock

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down your relationship. When others are busy looking for a man or woman to build trust with, you have long passed that stage. Both of you are just gathering resources to start a new life as husband and wife. When you get married, it will just be a formality. You have long

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been married just that it's not official. This is why when a man has been able to balance life, he finds it harder to find a wife. He cannot trust her. He doesn't know her past. She wasn't there from his struggling days. He has no other options but to impress her with

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money. And we all know how that pans out in some or most cases, don't we? He's desperate to settle down. She's desperate to settle down. They meet each other & unable to connect because a lot of water has gone under the bridge. You may say "What works for A will not work for

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B". But if you cast your mind back in time, you will realize the many opportunities you wasted. That young man or woman you toyed with their heart will cross your mind. That one you knew was going to be a good man or woman to you. But you messed things up because of

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1) cheating 2) lack of belief in your future 3) greed 4) laziness 5) the pursuit of material things 6) because you felt you were broke 7) failure to ask the right questions on time 8) being overzealous 9) poverty of the mind These things happen. In this community, we have read

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too many examples. Once you do a self-assessment of yourself and compare yourself to 5 years ago and now, you'll see that you've grown. Your lack of foresight and patience has caused you many things. But time waits for no one. Like they say... The best time to plant a tree

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

was 20 years ago. The next best time is now. I've gone through it & I feel I'm authorized & experienced to teach you the younger ones. It's out of love. Not to mock your situation. But to encourage you that if you learn from other's experiences, you won't be a victim. End.

Saved - November 3, 2023 at 8:46 PM
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In this cautionary tale, a married man's desperate pursuit of a woman led to a troubled marriage. The author advises against expressing immediate intentions to marry someone upon first meeting them, as it often leads to manipulation and infidelity. The man's wife had made it clear that her father rejected him, and her subsequent actions were influenced by this rejection. The author emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and not compromising one's worth for acceptance. The article concludes by highlighting the man's bruised ego and the need for him to handle the situation wisely.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

Please read this DM from a married man and read carefully, my submission on his case. I'll put it straight to you. You acted like you didn't have any other choice and your wife settled for you. She saw you were desperate to marry her from day one & she took advantage of your https://t.co/g3J4ofaNOB

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desperation to have her "best" times. I'll say this to you and I'll say the same to all single men reading. Never you meet any single lady for the first time, & you tell her you want to marry her. It doesn't matter how beautiful you think she is. It doesn't matter what sweet

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the attitude she portrayed. It doesn't matter what pleasant words people around her use on her. Do not ever say such to any lady. If you do, she'll start to play a script for you. Acting all "nice" & playing to the gallery. She'll see you as desperate & will cheat on you at

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any given time if she wishes to. You, on the other hand, are playing the marriage card & a responsible man. It sounds cool in theory & quite idealistic. But in reality, it is mostly a recipe for disaster. Women, ugly or beautiful, are all looking forward to marriage. It's a

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key prayer point in their lives. Don't make it easy for them because if you do, they'll take advantage of it & blame you for their deeds. After all, you were the one who saw her and told her you wanted to marry her just like that. Back to the man in the DM. You made the

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a first mistake by telling a woman you just met within a few hrs, that "she's your wife". God gave you a 2nd chance to save yourself by going through her father to reject you, but you were adamant. God delayed it for 7years to see if you could open your eyes but you were blind.

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Now you've finally married her and within 2 months, God has revealed to you what he had always warned you about. But God frowns at divorce. And as far as I'm concerned, your wife is not adulterous. From your story, you did not say she committed adultery. I can't even

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say she cheated on you in the "relationship". It was clear from the word go that her father rejected you. So she could not go against her father's decision. She told you this. It was never hidden. You couldn't expect her to stay faithful to you when her fate was hanging in

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in the balance. But eventually, she settled for you. One question that should come to your mind is this. For the 7 years her father rejected you, did her father reject other suitors too? How come she did not take one of those men she was sleeping with to see her father?

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Was she not good enough for at least one of them? Do you now understand what I meant by God was trying to save you? A meat that was rejected by different men for 7 years, you saw it and insisted that you must eat it. Now you've eaten it. And your eyes have been opened.

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Unfortunately, you cannot accuse her of cheating. But the information you have come to know about will change your feelings forever. Your ego has been badly bruised. And your wife is going to observe how you handle things going forward. And it also depends on the type of

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info you have. Was she sleeping with those men as a result of a relationship she hoped would lead to marriage, or she was just sleeping with random men for hookups? That will make you decide which steps you'll take next. But to me. It doesn't matter. You shouldn't have

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married her in the first place. You were naive, impulsive & suffering from oneitis. You don't spend 7 years of your life, begging a family to accept you as a son-in-law. You spend it building yourself so they'll be happy to make you their son-in-law. I wish you well. End.

Saved - November 6, 2023 at 4:52 PM
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Four years ago, my family made a drastic change. We canceled streaming services, cable TV, and news apps. Instead, we focused on what truly mattered: faith, fitness, family, finances, and friendships. The results were incredible. We saved $130/month, learned new things, and became more fulfilled. I quit my corporate job and now work on things I love. I'm in the best shape of my life, and my kids have followed suit. Our marriage and family life have improved, and our faith has exploded. We live a more active and meaningful life. While this extreme approach may not work for everyone, it's worth considering what truly matters to you and making small changes. Time is limited, so focus on what's important.

@tyromper - Tyler Todt

Four years ago my family cancelled: •Hulu •Netflix •HBO GO •Cable TV •Deleted all “news” apps We unplugged from what SOCIETY told us was important & focused ONLY on what we knew was important. •Faith •Fitness •Family •Finances •Friendships Here’s the results:

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1) Our family saved $130/month by canceling these services. Four years ago we got paid TWO ways each month. •My salary •Wife’s salary Last month we got paid 17 different ways!! With the extra time & endless resources available to us (Twitter, YouTube, mentors) we learned!

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I fired my corporate job 3 years ago & “work” on only things I love with people I love. Turns out it’s 100x more FULFILLING learning & working on things you feel passionate about than mindlessly zoning out every night. Our PASSIVE income now covers 75% of our monthly expenses!

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2) I am in the best shape of my life 3 weeks from 40. We have three young kids. I’m a very hands on dad. But without OBSESSING over sports, watching Netflix nightly & being PROGRAMMED by the news I create TIME everyday to workout, walk & stay active. Health is the real wealth.

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I recently completed 5 MURPHS in a day & did a 100,000 steps in a day. The best thing is my kids have followed suit! They don’t see dad SITTING & ZONING OUT TO TV. They think it’s NORMAL to be active, healthy, outside & playing! All parents need to take this role seriously.

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3) My marriage & family life are on fire! My wife & I used to “connect” by watching a show, playing on our phones & sitting in silence every night. Now we take walks, bike rides, read & learn together, connect & talk about OUR DREAMS & future. Get off devices more & BE WHERE YOUR FEET ARE!

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We had a family come visit us a while back. Their kids asked without TV what do you do?! •Soccer •Puzzles •Wrestle •Build forts •Relay races •Family walks •Board games •Explore parks •Dance parties •Sidewalk chalk •Squirt gun battles •Play outside everyday WE LIVE!

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4) My Faith has exploded. I replaced Netflix with watching/listening to 3-4 sermons a week. I read the Bible every day. I was a lukewarm Christian before this. I could’ve told you all about the Cardinals draft picks or argued why Jordan is better then LeBron. (He is!)

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But I was never STILL. I was busy with a show, reading propaganda news or sports. I never listened for God. I never carved out time to intentionally seek & grow my faith. I went to church. I gave God AN HOUR a week. I gave shows & sports 30. I’ve witnessed many miracles now.

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5) If I’m being honest I’ve lost or grown apart from some friends since this drastic switch. I know even now some will read this, get defensive & decide I’m an idiot & they aren’t going to entertain this. (Give me another 1 minute!)

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But the relationships I have have grown so much deeper. Instead of JUST small talk about sports or shows my friends & I talk: •Growing as leaders •Creating income streams •Being better dads & husbands •How our souls & eternal lens are It’s real life. It’s better.

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Please understand I am saying this EXTREME approach worked for me & my family. I was on the brink of divorce 6 years ago. I was lazy, low energy, stuck in a job I didn’t like with a dad bod. I was a passenger in life. I knew I wasn’t living how I could live, I was EXISTING.

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So NO I don’t think this all or nothing approach works for everyone. In fact, I wouldn’t recommend it to 90% of people. I would just ask you to pause a moment. Could you swap ONE show with a sermon? Could you swap morning “news” for a walk? What’s YOUR best life look like?

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I’m assuming not one HUMAN that’s ever walked earth sat on their DEATHBED & thought I wish I had watched Game of Thrones one more time through…… So reverse engineer your life. Ask yourself some questions today. What really matters to you? TIME is limited for us all.

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I have no clue what Trump is doing or Biden is doing ever. I have missed out on what FICTIONAL CHARACTERS are doing for the last four years. I wouldn’t trade a single second of it for the moments I’ve created with my wife, family & friends.

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I get asked a lot Ty don’t you feel uninformed being unplugged? Honestly, not once. If a story is big enough it FINDS YOU. 99% of the crap they feed you is a DISTRACTION & doesn’t affect you. No Politician can save you or even help you the way YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF!

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So help yourself today by swapping around a few key daily habits & asking yourself what’s truly important! Thanks for reading. I never say my way is the right way for anyone else but me. I hope YOU live your best life & FOCUS on what truly matters to you! All blessings. 🙏❤️

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@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

As a married woman, Tell your mother more of the good sides of your marriage. And tell your father more of the bad sides. If you tell your mother more of the bad sides, you may become a divorcee or mostly unhappy if you're not careful. And this is not vice versa. End.

Saved - November 17, 2023 at 9:35 PM
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Marriage brings expectations of sexual exclusivity for women, while men often feel less restricted. Delaying marriage may indicate a desire to explore sexually. Women's decision to commit to their husbands is crucial, and cheating should not be rubbed in their faces. If a woman commits to faithfulness, she must stick to it. Men should avoid cheating to save themselves from the pain, shame, and potential consequences. Women may seek revenge, and raising another man's child is a possibility.

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Women know that once they sign up for marriage, they've given up their right to sleep with other men. They already know (right from the relationship) that it's a given. While they can escape cheating in relationships, they hardly escape it in marriage if caught. By default,

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they have also prepared their mindset to forgive a cheating husband. Marriage is like a "prison" to women who crave for other men's dick. But it's not so for men. So when a sexually active woman is deliberately delaying marriage, even when there are lots of men flocking around

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her, she just may be thinking of that lifetime commitment to sexual exclusivity. Especially when you are hoping to marry a sexually active university girl You just may be truncating her "hoe phase". And some of them don't want that. A few days ago, I told us that in

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relationships, women cheat more and in marriage, men cheat more. This is a fact that only myopic and hypocritical people would deny. As a single man or married man, just do a random survey of the women you've slept with. If you want, you can sleep with 5 different women in a

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week. Are they all your girlfriends? Are they prostitutes? Don't some of these ladies tell you that they have boyfriends? How many married women are amongst them? Out of every 10 women you sleep with, 9 will be single. Are those married women not feeling horny too?

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You'll quickly realize that one of the key decisions a woman makes before she gets married is to tell herself that she has to focus on her husband's dick alone. Also, by default, men do not expect their women to cheat. This is why it's difficult to forgive a cheating woman.

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We know these things already. Except we just wish to pretend. And I'm a man and I'm married. And I know that I'm not an exception to these rules. What then should I tell men? It's simple & not rocket science. When you find a wife, you must know & recognize the key decisions

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she's making for you. Sexual exclusivity is one of them. And it's indeed a tough decision to make. Especially by a woman you did not deflower and once had sexual relationships with other men. You do not rub your cheating on her face. If you do, you'll trigger her & make her

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default on her commitment. It's a lot tougher if you're her first and only. But if you're not, it won't be such a hard kill to stray. It's why we have read so many DMs from married men, complaining that their wives still keep in touch with their exes. Women don't forget men

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they have once been sexual with easily. If she makes that commitment to be faithful to you, she has to stick to it. If you have done nothing to warrant her keeping in touch with her exes, then she never knew why she got married. She just wanted to answer "Mrs". A man and a

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Women are supposed to commit to faithfulness to each other. But we all know that it's not the case in reality. Not even when some women and society embrace polygamy. So who is deceiving who? When I tell men not to rub these things on the faces of their wives, it's not

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because I want to encourage you to cheat if you have the opportunity. It's to save your life. Women are selfish and no woman will feel happy knowing that you cheat on her & still deprive her of sex and other needs of hers. The pain and shame she knows she will face if she

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decides to cheat back, will not let her. But she will take vengeance on you. And if you're not careful, you'll raise another man's child. And she will tell you that she didn't tell you it was your child. You just assumed it was yours because you are married to her. End.

Saved - November 21, 2023 at 5:14 AM
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33 lessons for fathers to teach their sons: 1. Be gracious in victory, create lifelong friends. 2. Don't whine in defeat, learn from losses. 3. Focus on skills, enjoy the journey. 4. No one owes you a job, work hard. 5. Pursue your passions without fear. 6. You can always come home. 7. Stand by your principles, withstand sabotage. 8. Return borrowed things in better condition. 9. Embrace marriage and fatherhood. 10. Attempt hard things, reject mediocrity. 11. Avoid envy, celebrate others' success. 12. Have compassion, not blind empathy. 13. Don't worry about strangers' opinions. 14. Build a good reputation, value wisdom. 15. Learn from criticism, control your reactions. 16. Accept compliments graciously. 17. Embrace gender differences, fulfill responsibilities. 18. Avoid porn, protect your home and intimacy. 19. Apologize when necessary, respect others. 20. Honor your mother's sacrifices. 21. Choose friends wisely, influence your future. 22. Keep your temper in check, maintain gravitas. 23. Learn to sell, persuasion is essential. 24. Listen and ask questions, be a good conversationalist. 25. Strive for excellence, not just being on top. 26. Get sunlight daily for mental well-being. 27. Keep your word, fulfill promises. 28. Build strong relationships, it's key to success. 29. Listen to your conscience, embrace healthy shame. 30. Recognize similarities with your father. 31. Fight for what's right, courage matters. 32. Accept your divine design and obligations. 33. Choose stories wisely, they shape your worldview.

@FoundationDads - Foundation Father | M.A. Franklin

33 lessons every father must teach his son: 1. Do not gloat in victory. Everyone already knows you have won. Gloating turns defeated opponents into lifelong enemies. Being gracious in victory creates lifelong friends. Point out something they did well, and ask how they did it.

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2. Do not whine in defeat. You will gradually get fewer and fewer invites, and you will never get better at the thing you just lost at. Every loss is a moment to learn, but if you are a sore loser, no one will want to teach you.

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3. Focus on skills, not outcomes. Skills will compound together, and eventually, the outcomes will take care of themselves. Learn to enjoy the journey. Demand excellence from yourself. Remember, anything worth doing is worth doing badly.

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4. No one owes you a job. There is no shame in seeking employment, but no one owes you anything. When people moved West, there were no jobs. But there was plenty of work. If you are willing to do the work, you get to a point where you can give other people jobs.

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5. Do not be afraid to want something. And then go after it with passion and drive. Do not listen to people who pretend not to care or remain detached from everything. That is a habit of the mediocre. They are afraid to fail. This world needs men with holy ambition.

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6. You can always come home. Never think that you will be unwelcome. No matter what you have done, no matter where you have been, you can always come home. There might be consequences to face or changes that need to be made. But we can face those challenges together.

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7. When you make a principled stand, people will try to sabotage you. Be prepared. Use it as an opportunity to prove that you meant what you said. This is where the true test of courage lies. True leaders will be able to withstand this sabotage and affect real change.

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8. If you borrow something, give it back in better condition (if possible). If you borrow a lawn mower or a car, return it clean and topped off with gas. If you borrow a book, don't bend the spine or the page corners. Treat borrowed things better than your own property.

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9. You are not meant to live alone. A man who finds a good wife has found an excellent thing, something more valuable than jewels and gold. You probably don't have the gift of chastity. Most men don't. Expect to get married and plan to take care of the children that come.

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10. Attempt hard things. Life is not meant to be easy. You were meant to be a man who carries heavy things. You were meant to try, fail, and try again. Keep leveling up. Reject mediocrity. Take the road less traveled. It's less crowded anyway.

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11. Envy rots the bones. You should be as happy for your friend's successes as they are. Do not resent those who are celebrated at work. Use it as inspiration instead. And look for friends that don't tear you down when you have your own success. Envy will cripple you. Kill it.

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12. Empathy is a poison. Today, empathy is used as a power tool in the hands of the weak and immature to get their way. Those calling for empathy demand support for alleged victims, no matter what, regardless of the truth. Have compassion instead. Reserve your right to disagree

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13. Don't worry about what strangers think. They aren't thinking about you at all. Everyone is busy thinking about themselves. Except maybe your parents and grandparents. Which is why you should call them often. **Wink wink**

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14. A reputation is hard to build, easy to destroy. It takes years to build a good name, years for people to assume you are trustworthy and competent. It can all be burned down in a single moment. One bad decision can erase years of goodwill. Get wisdom and good friends.

@FoundationDads - Foundation Father | M.A. Franklin

15. If you bristle at criticism, that's your insecurities talking. You can learn something from almost anyone. A lot of that learning will come in the form of criticism, even criticism that isn't meant to be constructive. But you control how you react.

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16. When someone gives you a compliment, say “thank you." This is surprisingly hard to do. You will be tempted to put on a faux humility, to shrug your shoulders or shake your head or say, "it was nothing." But a compliment is a gift, and you should just say thanks.

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17. Men and women are different. In everything, down to their DNA. A 120-pound woman will never beat up a 220-pound man. Because you are a man, you have responsibilities that would not fall, and *should not* fall, on a woman. Embrace the differences. Lean into them.

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18. Porn will wreck your home, your life, and your soul. Avoid porn at all costs. Flee from it. It will sap your strength and cripple your progress in almost every other discipline. It will destroy future intimacy with your wife. Better to poke out your eyes.

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19. Never apologize...unless you have done something wrong. Especially to your girlfriend and wife. Apologizing when you have done nothing wrong is deceptive and manipulative. Have greater respect for them. And never apologize to a mob, real or conjured up on social media.

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20. Honor your mother. She sacrificed more for you than you will ever know. She literally gave of her life, breath, and blood to mend you inside the womb. "... forsake not your mother’s teaching, for they are a graceful garland for your head and pendants for your neck."

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21. Choose your friends wisely. Show me your friends, and I'll show you your future. You will be the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. You want that average to be high. "Bad company corrupts good morals." But the opposite is also true.

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22. Every time you lose your temper, you lose some of your gravitas. Your temper should be a long, slow-burning fuse. Slights and offenses bounce off you harmlessly.

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23. If you can learn to sell one thing, you can learn to sell anything You are a salesperson, whether you want to be or not. You are always selling something, whether it's a product or your skills as an employee. The core principles of persuasion remain the same.

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24. If you listen and ask questions, people will talk. Being a good conversationalist is easier than you think. Just be curious and say far less than the other person. The more one-sided the conversation in the other person's favor, the better they'll think of you.

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25. There is always someone better. But who cares? You can still be exceptional, and it doesn't take much to be in the top 20% of the world. It takes even less to be in the top 20% of your community. Don't be obsessed with being on top, but work as if you're in the running.

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26. Get some sun every day. So many people are depressed and never give themselves a fighting chance. Natural sunlight is your best weapon. Get 20 minutes of sunlight every single day, even when it's freezing outside.

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27. Let your "yes" be "yes," and your "no" be "no." Say what you mean and mean what you say. Keep your promises, even if it hurts. If you put forth your best effort and can't fulfill a promise, own up to it. Then try to offer something as good or better.

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28. Life really is about who you know. Build relationships. Help others achieve their goals. Being the best at something is great. Having strong relationships is even better. If you have both, you have unlocked one of the great, open secrets of life.

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29. Shame can be a good thing. Shame is the language of your conscience. You ignore it at your peril. And the more you ignore it, the more quiet your conscience will get. But it can be faulty, so do not treat it as an arbiter of truth, but rather as a trusted counselor.

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30. You are like your father. The cliche is true: the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You probably have some of the same strengths and weaknesses. You tend toward the same virtues and faults.

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31. Sometimes, a losing battle is worth fighting because it's the right thing to do. Courage is its own reward, and virtue is never a waste of time. Avoid pure pragmatism, and never use it as an excuse for inaction or cowardice.

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32. You were designed and created by God. The world will make a lot more sense once you accept this truth. That sense of right or wrong that you feel after you do something? That comes from outside yourself. With the image of God comes privileges, but also obligations.

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33. Read the right kinds of stories. Anything you put in your mind will be there forever, and it will train your affections for good or for ill. What you find attractive, what you find good, what you see as evil...all of this is informed by the stories you consume.

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Embracing God-centered marriages, gender roles, and traditional values fosters strength and happiness. Men's provision and protection, alongside women's nurturing and child-rearing, empower us biologically. Embracing our unique roles and strengths creates strong, joyful families, which in turn build a strong, joyful nation!

@TalkMullins - Heather Mullins

Let’s bring back God centered marriages, gender roles, and traditional values. Men provide and protect. Women raise your children and nurture your family. It’s biologically empowering for men to be in their masculinity and women their femininity. We’re beautifully different, and when we embrace our unique roles and God given strengths, it makes for a strong happy family. Lots of strong happy families make for a strong happy Country! ❤️🇺🇸

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Saved - December 4, 2023 at 7:57 AM
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In my teachings, I've noticed some misinterpretations by men. Despite facing criticism, I've celebrated success stories of couples who found guidance in my teachings. I emphasize the importance of balance between genders and acknowledge that women can be manipulative. My wife disagrees with me at times, but we discuss and learn from each other. I caution men not to hastily judge women based on red flags, as they can be worked on. It's crucial to understand and lead women with love and respect. Misinterpretations arise from not studying my words carefully. Masculinity and femininity should complement each other for a healthy relationship.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

I'm genuinely concerned about the ways some men interpret or apply my teachings. I may not have expressly said it here, but the wise ones can tell the type of life I lived when I was much younger. And they can also tell the type of life I live now. Both lifestyles are

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distinctively different and it didn't just come overnight. I did not learn it from social media even though I have had my fair share of social media toxicity. Especially from this community that I founded. When I started this community, it was always one insult to the other.

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Mainly coming from women. "Who hurt you?" "And you say you're married?" "I pity your wife" "You're a toxic man" Name them. But I did not relent and I kept moving and never backed down from my message. Under 4 years, I've had cause to celebrate both men and women who shared

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their wedding invites with me, and acknowledged how my teachings led them to the right path. I've had cause to celebrate couples who were on the verge of divorce but the teachings rescued their marriage. Sons and daughters reconciling with their parents. And some relationships

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and marriages packed up. For me, I've strived hard to balance things up between genders. I've not made the teachings one-sided because I know that men and women need each other. So when I read from some young men, I tend to want to consider women who allege that

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Some men are using my teachings to perpetuate wickedness to women. I agree that women can be manipulative. But what we must realize is that even my wife vehemently disagrees with me a lot of the time. Sometimes, she sees my posts on blogs and we discuss them. Sometimes, she

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visits my page to read for herself. I don't react negatively to her outburst because she's my wife. She disagrees but with respect. Something I have little tolerance for here because you the woman are not my wife. And I'm not sleeping with you. It's your boyfriend or

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husbands that you can do that to, not me. But what do I then do? I sit with my wife and explain things to her like she's my daughter. I use numerous examples & sometimes, I use DM stories to show her exactly what I mean. Her point of argument always stems from... "how many

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wives, do you have? " "How sure are you that this applies to most women?" My response to her is always... A woman is a woman. Then she reclines. And after some hours or days. " Sweetie, that thing you said is true o". Have I not taught her with love, care &

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

patience? We already know that women react quite negatively to fact & logic a lot of the time. Put simply... Cognitive dissonance. For women, it should always be a carrot-and-stick approach. You can't teach women with theory. You can't lead them with force. You can't get

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them to respect & submit if you if you've not earned it. It's not just you saying "I'm a man". This is why I try to caution young men not to quickly discard a lady because they notice a few red flags. Red flags are not red lines. If there are no red flags you've turned

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green in your woman, then you've not worked on her. And this is vice versa. Some red flags are created directly from your relationship with each other. Not from an external source. Let me give you a few examples of how some of my teachings are being misinterpreted. 1) Agba

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

said single mothers are red flags, run. Was that it? What I said is that men must be careful & if they've never been married, they should be a 5th option. 2) Women don't love men. If your woman tells you that she loves you, does it mean that you have to react angrily to it?

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

3) Don't play a fatherly role on a woman you're not married to. Does that mean that I said if your girlfriend genuinely needs financial assistance, then you should not give her? If you don't take your time to study the words I use in my teachings, you may destroy a relationship

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

or marriage that has no serious issues. Masculinity is good but the absence of it is toxic. Masculinity is shrewd and femininity is malleable. You can't lead a woman right if you don't first understand their nature. Otherwise, you'll activate her inactive poison. End.

Saved - December 9, 2023 at 2:26 PM
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A MIL can ruin her daughter's marriage if she's not careful. The husband stood up to his in-laws' wealth, asserting his independence. This shows he's a man who won't be disrespected in his own home. The wife's behavior may affect her daughters' perception of men. The husband should make his wife understand her mother's intentions and choose between her mother and their marriage. He should lead and not allow disrespect towards his mother. No need to apologize or engage with the MIL. Cut off the trouble-making sister-in-law. Call the FIL and introduce the wife to this advice.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

A typical example of how a MIL can destroy her daughter's marriage if she's not careful. Please read this DM carefully and note the red flags I've been teaching for a while. If not that this man decided to be his own man without looking for who to feed him, they would have https://t.co/0PuMvJv8Yi

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

reduced him to nothing because he decided to put eyes in his inlaws' wealth. But he did not allow their wealth to dictate to him on how to run his home and lead his wife. That's the first sign that you're a man and as long as no one is feeding you, they do not have any right https://t.co/YJSbQxtGEm

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

to disrespect you in your home. You have married your wife already. But if you hadn't and you came to me for advise, I would have suggested to you not to. When a wife calls the shot in her matrimonial home, then it may affect the mentality of her daughters towards the way https://t.co/eJnCg7QH3y

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

they see men. Her father (though wealthy), has been dealing with her mother for about 30 years. Thankfully, he's aware of his mistakes and has stood up for you despite all her mother wants to make him believe. Meaning he knows his wife & what she's capable of doing.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

Unfortunately, your wife doesn't understand what her mother is trying to do to her marriage. Or may be she does but doesn't know how to put her mother in her place. She will have to choose between her mother or her marriage. Tell her that she should not make you regret ever

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

getting married to her. Also, explain to her how the dynamics of the relationship between her parents have affected her. And also, let her know that whatever she saw her mother do to her father ended in her father's house. If she knows she's ready to make the marriage work,

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

she must act like she's willing to and allow you lead her. I must commend you for the way you handled things. Your inlaws disrespected your mother for obvious reasons. That they feel they're doing your family a favour by allowing you marry into their family. If your father

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were to be a wealthy man like your FIL, can your MIL or your wife try that nonsense. How can they starve your mother even when you're the one providing for your home? Never allow them disrespect your mother that way again. And as for your MIL, do not apologize to her. You

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don't even need to be calling her on the phone. If she calls you, pick and greet her like an elderly woman. That's it. If she wants to discuss the matter, tell her that you have already discussed with her husband and you do not wish to bring it up again. And that you have

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

cautioned your wife. And she should respect your marriage and allow your wife learn how to be a good and respectful wife. If she is sensible, she will understand what you said to her. As for your MIL younger sister, do not allow her come to your house to live anymore.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

She's a trouble maker. If she is married, she should face her matrimonial home & respect yours. Always call your FIL. He's a man that's also dealing with his baggage. Lastly, introduce your wife to this page or show her similar DMs. Before she completely self destruct. End.

Saved - December 30, 2023 at 2:51 PM
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A 33-year-old man is dating a 23-year-old woman and has put in a lot of effort to teach and mold her. Other men in their late 20s and early 30s say they wouldn't have the patience for it. The man believes that family background and upbringing matter, and he has worked on improving her relationship with her parents and friends. The woman has had past relationships, but they have good sexual compatibility. The man also discusses the importance of handling conflicts and disappointments in a relationship. He questions whether older men are willing to deal with younger women and advises that it's easier to understand someone from the same generation.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

The 33-year-old man dating a 23-year-old lady did a lot of work in trying to teach, groom, and mold his girlfriend. That's how it should be done. I did the same but at a much younger age. Which for me, is still the most recommended. Most of the men in their late 20s and early

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

30s said they would not have such patience or mental capacity to deal with such a lady. Recall that a few days ago, I had said men may not marry a woman that they've not "brainwashed". And that women may not marry men that they have not healthily "manipulated". But I also

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

said something when I shared my story. I said family background & upbringing matter. And that if she has it, it's a good start. Let's use the man's story as a case study here. 1) Her mother. He had said that her mother is disrespectful to her father and that she even brings

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men into the house after the father had left them. According to him, he has been able to teach her that the ways of her mother are not the right way & that it'll not help her. My stand has always been that before you choose your wife, choose her mother. And that men should be

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careful with their decisions in marrying a lady raised by a single mother. Is he willing to be an exception? From his story, it seems he's willing. He knows his girlfriend more than we all do. So let's wish him the best that things remain that way. 2) Her father. He said

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that he has been able to teach his girlfriend about the need to have a good relationship with her father. That for me, is a good move, and with her father being close to her, he can help the man in the future to tame his wife (if he marries her). 3) Her friends. He said her

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

friends are into clubbing and hookups. And that when he did his investigation, he discovered that his girlfriend was different. He also said that he was able to sever the relationship she had with her friends and her friends now admire her. Recall I had said when you catch them

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Young, you should quickly separate her from her bad friends & teach and "brainwash" her. It appears from his story that he did that. 4) He has past relationships. At 23, she had already dated 5 men. For me, I would want to say that on average, a 23-year-old lady is more

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

likely to have dated more men when compared to the average number of ladies a 23-year-old young man would have dated. Especially if she's not a virgin. Well, she told him it's 5. However, did she also come clean with her actual number of body counts? We can't say and we can

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

never say. 5) She was the one that deflowered him. It's unclear in his story if he made that known to her or he kept it to himself. If it's the former, well he should brace up for the future taunts that may come with it. If it's the latter, all well and good. What is most

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

important is that he says they have good sexual compatibility. 6) Destroying properties & tearing of clothes. Before I shared his DM yesterday, I shared a thread that I wrote last year. Telling you people my experience with my wife in that aspect. I don't know but I can

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

tell you all that most of you would experience the same in one form or the other. Before you react negatively, please think thoroughly. Is it worth breaking up for? What is the guarantee that the next woman you meet won't do the same or even worse? You must use every

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

moment of disappointment as a teaching opportunity. As long as the disappointment doesn't cross your red lines. I recall I shared a DM story from a married man whose wife destroyed their expensive TV in a moment of rage. He did not ask to divorce his wife because of that.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

When she realized her mistake, he used it as a teaching moment for his wife. The relationship is a game, & the smartest persons win. If you truly want to live with a woman, you as the man must be mentally prepared. You don't say because she's an adult, then she must act like

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one. Holding your woman to the same standard as you may wish to hold yourself is self-deceit. Women are like adult babies. So you must treat them as one. Not even when you're sleeping with her or she's the mother of your kids. You're the leader and you must to a very large

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extent, show restraints, and maturity. If you're waiting for the one that has no "dirt" on her, you may just be waiting in vain. You're not unblemished yourself. So, I ask again. Are 30+ men willing to deal with < 23-year-old ladies? You need to search your conscience.

@jon_d_doe - High Chief Àgbà

You're better off with her if both of you belong to the same generation. Because it's easier to understand them & you also have all the time to be patient & groom her. Always remember. Femininity is malleable and masculinity is shrewd. You must work & earn your wife. End.

Saved - March 22, 2024 at 7:15 AM
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A woman is not engaging in sexual activity with her husband due to feeling emotionally unsafe. The author expresses frustration with the cycle of criticism and demands for improvement in relationships. They highlight the comparison of efforts, questioning of commitment, and suggestion of counseling. The post ends with a sarcastic remark about the woman's changing expectations.

@Prolotario1 - Ariel

No Sex With Her Husband Because She Doesn't Feel Emotionally Safe: (Yes, she's a Liberal) This is what happens when women get bored in a relationship. They start to point out things they think are wrong in the relationship. Then they come up with reasons why what you're doing is wrong in the relationship. Then they come up with ways they think can fix what's wrong in the relationship. Then they task you with fixing what is wrong in the relationship. Then once you attend to that area in the relationship it's how you're not dedicating enough time to ensure this doesn't stay wrong to long where it's to late to fix what's wrong in the relationship. Then once you attend to that area of the relationship long enough to fix what's wrong you're going about it in a way where you're not showing enough emotional support. Then they start to compare your efforts in fixing what's wrong in the relationship to someone else's efforts in fixing what's wrong in their relationship. Then they question your commitment to the relationship, wondering if you're truly invested in making things work because your enthusiasm it's now what's wrong in the relationship. Then they bring up past mistakes and unresolved issues, dredging up old wounds and reopening emotional scars because that's probably the reason why you're having trouble fixing what's wrong in the relationship. Then they suggest counseling or therapy, hoping an outsider can shed light on the murky waters of your relationship because not being open to professional help is probably what's wrong with the relationship. Then they retreat into silence, leaving you to wonder if anything you do will ever be enough to satisfy their ever-changing expectations that with every new pair of shoes and new body cream for Bathe Bath & Beyond.

@stillgray - Ian Miles Cheong

Apparently this is why women won’t have sex with their husband. https://t.co/uIEiU6UC2P

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The main reason women stop having sex with their husbands is due to feeling emotionally unsafe from unmet attachment needs. Anxious preoccupied women need love and reassurance, fearful avoidant women need to feel seen and understood, and dismissive avoidant women need space and peace. When attachment needs are ignored, women may feel disgusted and unable to be intimate. Despite potential criticism, the speaker emphasizes the importance of addressing women's emotional needs in relationships.
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Speaker 0: This is the biggest reason that women stop having sex with their husbands, and I know what's coming in the comment section and I don't care because I have to spit the truth. And, yes, I do know what I'm talking about. I know, Stuart, you're gonna comment and say, well, maybe it's this, this, and this and you're gonna get kind of mad about what I had to say. But here's the deal. I have a doctorate in social psychology. I've spent my entire adult life studying romantic relationships, the science of romantic relationships, both studying the science as well as publishing in the science. And so I am very well versed in this topic, not to mention that I've seen thousands of clients and heard from thousands of women about why they won't have sex with their husbands. So, you know, Joe, if you know better, for sure put it in the comments, but I think I have some credibility. And if this is a problem in your relationship, you might wanna humble yourself and take a seat and hear what I have to say. The primary reason why women stop having sex with their husbands is because they don't feel emotionally safe. And the reason that they don't feel emotionally safe is because their attachment needs are not being met inside of the relationship. Attachment needs are our deepest needs inside of a romantic relationship. And if those things are not fulfilled, we will not feel emotionally safe. And especially for women, when there is a lack of emotional safety, they start feeling very unsafe giving their bodies to their partner, and they start to feel extremely unattracted to their partner. Like, they simply can't get physically turned on by their partners anymore. So if you're not familiar with my content, you might be asking, how do I know what their attachment needs are? Well, there's a lot of information about attachment out there. You could dig through my videos and you could probably very easily figure out the attachment style of your partner. Attachment science has been around since 1958. It's been studied empirically in thousands of empirical studies. Go to PubMed. The studies are out there. Okay? Or you can work with me and I'm happy to assess the attachment of your partner. And here's what you need to know. The different attachment styles have very, very different needs. So knowing the attachment style of your partner is really the keys to the kingdom and getting all your needs met inside of the relationship as well. So the anxious preoccupied, their biggest need is love, affection, and reassurance. So they need lots of reassurance every single day that you love them, that the relationship is stable, and that you are in fact appreciative of them. And they really have all the love languages. They just want lots of reassurance of your love. Okay? The fearful avoidant, I just did a video on this. Their biggest need is to be able to feel seen, heard, and understood in the relationship, AKA trust you to show up for them in a way that feels good to them. Okay? So really leaning in to seeing, hearing, and understanding them, and making a lot of space for their feelings is super important. For the dismissive avoidant woman, it's going to be space, autonomy, and lack of criticism, AKA peace and harmony inside the relationship. So a lot of times, what I see is that women are expressing my emotional needs are not met, AKA their attachment needs. And I physically cannot get turned on by my partner anymore. In fact, they start to get disgusted. Like, they get the ick so majorly bad. And could you open up your body and allow someone to, like, penetrate your being if you feel disgusted by them. They feel like they're violating themselves and someone is violating them. And trust me, I do videos on why meeting a man's sexual needs is very important inside of a relationship. So I'm definitely not one-sided on this. I'm just trying to share the woman's side here. And I know I may get roasted in the comments by the men, and I'm expecting it, and I don't care. And none none of my self esteem comes from what, you know, Bob thinks. Right? But I know that I'm gonna have a lot of women in the comments shouting thank you. Thank you for saying what's been so hard for me to say or what my husband is not hearing. So there you go. The haters just boost the algorithm, so go ahead.
Saved - January 25, 2025 at 3:01 AM

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This Air Force base in North Dakota changed the name of their DEI program to circumvent Trump's executive order. THEY CANNOT GET AWAY WITH THIS cc @PeteHegseth https://t.co/udElY1yyaA

Saved - February 23, 2025 at 12:02 AM

@JOKAQARMY1 - mrredpillz jokaqarmy

What they say lol. Watch the wives 👀. https://t.co/L2gWNkD84d

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Behind every powerful man, there's a powerful woman. Happy Rockefeller was a beautiful soul. Back in the fifties, if you asked anyone in Washington who their biggest crush was, Happy would win by a landslide. Though, Chuck Schumer's wife today is one of a kind. And hopping over to Europe, Bridget McCrone and her son, Landon. The wives of these leaders are beautiful. Michelle Obama, you're the hottest first lady ever. And your brother, Michael, could be on GQ every month. Oh, and Barb, I could never forget you and those shoulders.
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Speaker 0: Like I always say, behind every powerful man, there's a powerful woman. Happy Rockefeller. She was just a dandy, just a a beautiful soul. Let's look at her when she was younger. Got It's a beautiful photo standing next to Pat Nixon, short for Patrick. Oh, yeah. You could ask anybody in Washington in the fifties who they had a crush on the most. Happy got the most votes. But we all know today that Chuck Schumer's wife takes the cake. She's she's one of a kind. Hopping over to Europe, you got Bridget McCrone with her son, Landon. These leaders just have the most beautiful wives I've ever seen. Personally, for me, Michelle Obama, you are the hottest first lady in history. And your brother, Michael, Jesus, could be on GQ every month and I'd still buy every issue. Oh, Barb, you know I couldn't forget you. Tiss, tiss. Right? You had shoulders bigger than Brian Urlacher.
Saved - May 13, 2025 at 3:50 AM
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I believe men are often unprepared for the complexities of women's desires. It's crucial to understand that women are not inherently "nice" and tend to be attracted to strength and dominance. They may pressure men to relinquish their power, but doing so can lead to being seen as unattractive. True love isn't about equality; it's about being confident in your position and allowing her to join your journey. Embracing leadership in relationships is more rewarding than pretending to be equals, and this knowledge can lead to a more fulfilling life.

@ItIsHoeMath - hoe_math

Men are born completely unprepared for the treachery in the hearts of women, and for at least four generations now, it has been a punishable offense to teach them. WHAT ALL MEN MUST LEARN ABOUT WOMEN: 1. Women are not the 'nice' sex. Men are. 2. Women desire strength. Power. Force. Dominance. Men who have this are "hot." 3. Women almost never admit that they desire strength. Instead, they pressure you to surrender it. She will say "if you love me, you will give up your power." 4. If you give up your power, you become disgusting. 5. Women hate disgusting men. They would rather these men die than ever have to look at or speak to them. LEARN IT. LEARN IT RIGHT NOW. You grow up believing that "love" is "when she is on your side as much as you are on hers." This is not love. This is just a fool's death. Love is when you are on your own side, and your side is winning, and she wants to join your team, and you let her, and she gets the benefits of being on your team. As soon as she says "it's my team now," you're dead in the water.

@ItIsHoeMath - hoe_math

OH AND ALSO: It's way more fun and fulfilling to be the team leader than it is to pretend you're equal. You should not be dismayed about this information. You should be glad to have instruction for how to get the good stuff in life.

Saved - June 11, 2025 at 12:32 PM
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In my posts, I share unfiltered truths about relationships that every man should know. I emphasize the importance of choosing wisely, avoiding emotional traps, and maintaining self-respect. Key points include not marrying women raised under maternal dominance, recognizing that beauty can be deceptive, and understanding that love is often tied to emotional highs rather than loyalty. I advocate for setting boundaries, staying mysterious, and not over-investing in relationships. Ultimately, I encourage men to focus on self-improvement and not to settle for less than they deserve.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

If you want peace in a relationship, stop playing like a boy & start thinking like a king. Most men lose because they don’t understand the brutal rules of the game. Here are the unfiltered truths every man must know. Thread. 1. Never Marry a Girl Whose Mother Runs the Home.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

If her mother controls the household, you're marrying into a legacy of disrespect. That girl was raised under female dominance, she will challenge you, undermine you & fight your authority every chance she gets. Strong men don’t marry daughters of weak men.

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Men are afraid to open up to women because they've been trained it's not safe due to past experiences where women weaponized their vulnerability. This was prompted by a video discussing Shaquille O'Neal and Country Wayne's views on men showing vulnerability to women, which sparked debate in the comments. Many men expressed that opening up to women is not realistic. Singer K. Michelle posted that she feels like she's the man in the relationship if her man cries in front of her. This reinforces why men don't feel safe being vulnerable.
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Speaker 0: Men are afraid to open up to their women because they have been trained that it's not safe to do so. Trained? Women, yes. They have been groomed and trained by their past experiences and relationships with women that it's not safe to be vulnerable because a woman will throw it back in their face. Just did that video about how Shaquille O'Neal and Country Wayne were talking about how you can't ever be down to your woman and the responses in the comments and I was like, no, a man should be able to open up. There were so many men that were like, although this is a great thought, this is not how it is. Speaker 1: And it's funny because Kay Michelle literally just did a post saying that how she feels like she's the man in the relationship if her man ever cries in front of her. Speaker 0: Like, how dare you? That's why men don't feel safe to be vulnerable.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

2. Don’t Let Her Beauty Cloud Your Judgment She’s beautiful? So what. Beauty is the cheapest currency women offer. Every man has fallen for a pretty face and paid the price. Beauty fades. Manipulation doesn’t. Think with your brain, not your hormones.

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If a woman says she's busy, it means she's not interested. Don't keep pursuing someone who says they're busy for weeks. Instead, respect yourself and her by moving on. Meet women online or in real life, but don't chase after someone who isn't interested.
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Speaker 0: I'm so busy these days. If she texts you or tells you in person that she's so busy these days, have a shred of self respect and understand. Nobody is busy for weeks on end. Busy just means she's not interested. One of the most respectful things towards her and yourself is to be able to move on straight away. Meet women online. Meet women in real life. Don't keep crawling after somebody who tells you she's busy.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

3. Stop Trying to Fix Her—Fix Yourself by Walking Away If you think love can heal her trauma, you're already lost. She’s not broken, she’s built that way. And your job is not to be her emotional rehab. Protect your peace. Save your energy. Leave, don’t labor.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

4. Women Are Actors by Nature Dissimulation—lying, pretending, role-playing—is in her blood. It’s not evil, it’s evolutionary. She cries on cue. Smiles on demand. Gaslights with ease. Never trust her words—watch her patterns.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

5. She Will Love You in Good Times, Leave You in Bad Prosperity attracts her. Adversity repels her. It’s instinct. She wants comfort, not struggle. So don’t think she’ll ride through hell for you. She’s not loyal to you—she’s loyal to what you provide.

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The speaker asserts they have clear and definite boundaries, granting no one unlimited access to their life. They claim they will hold people accountable for their words. The speaker states their height is five foot ten, but they become "ten foot five" when standing on business, which they intend to do throughout the year.
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Speaker 0: I have boundaries that are clear and definite, and no one has carte blanche in my life. And if you say something, then I'm a make you stand on the scene. I'm five foot ten, but I'm ten foot five when I stand on business, goddamn it. And I'm standing on business all year long.

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

6. Prayer and Begging Never Win a Woman’s Heart You can’t beg your way into her affection. Neediness repulses her. And the moment you act desperate, you lose all masculine value. Stand tall. Stay silent. Walk away.

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Speaker 0 expresses strong disagreement with the saying "happy wife, happy life," calling it ridiculous. Speaker 1 interprets the saying as something men say who believe their wives are always unhappy, so they are content as long as she isn't shouting and they can watch football. Speaker 0 questions why that is something to aspire to, imagining their kids being satisfied with their partner's mild dissatisfaction while they watch a football game. Speaker 0 emphasizes that this is not something to hope for.
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Speaker 0: Happy wife whoever said that should just be beaten to death. Happy wife, happy life. Like, if I hear one more person give that advice to somebody, I have to tell you, that is just the most ridiculous what does that even mean? Happy wife, happy life? Speaker 1: If she's happy, then I'm happy. Because it Is that true? I think it I I think it's used by men who believe that their wife is always unhappy. Mhmm. So if she's not shouting at me and I can just sit here and watch the football Yeah. Then all all is well. Speaker 0: Why is that something to aspire to? You know? Man, I can't wait. What? For someday for my kids to just sit there while the up person in the other room is just mildly dissatisfied with them, and they can just sit and watch, you know, the football game. Really? That's that's what we're aspiring to? That's what you hope for? Like, I gotta tell you, I

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

No more begging for attention. No more weak mindsets. No more simping. In 60 days, The Alpha CODE will turn you into the man they can’t ignore—and she can’t replace.👇 https://2846be00fbf75e36288b423d67083d35.us-east-1.resend-links.com/CL0/https:%2F%2Fgumroad.com%2Fa%2F34655251%2Fntjqa/1/010001965d96e660-2f3a7b38-5972-4ff2-b1f8-0c2ddfd5c208-000000/CX-IMp98v4FhBIrxtjrVcCZCEO_ULX3rwXRbBPp83iE=401

@mentormqsculus - 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬

7. Don’t Waste Time Chasing or Helping Women She has backup. Simps. Social media. “Big bros.” You have no safety net. You fall—you crash. She will deny you help, then turn around and cry for someone else to save her. Stay focused on building yourself.

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Women are biologically driven to seek the best mate. When a man ignores a woman, he taps into this need. Men who excessively compliment or give unearned gifts signal that they aren't the best choice. Men with options don't need to over-impress. Ignoring a woman can signal high value because it implies abundance. Scarcity increases perceived value, making a man who ignores a woman seem like a prize worth pursuing.
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Speaker 0: The psychology behind why women chase men that ignore them. When a man is ignoring a woman, he is directly striking that biological need of hers to be with the best man. The women want to be with the best possible mate they can be with. So when you're a guy begging her to go out with you, showering her with compliments and validation and gifts when she hasn't earned it, you're telling her that you're not the best guy for her. Because men with options, they're not going above and beyond to impress a girl. So women chase men that ignore them because those men are in abundance. Those men are signaling to her that they are a better mate than you. Human beings, we want a prize. This is why we love things that are scarce. The more scarce you are, the more valuable you are. That's why women chase men that ignore them.

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8. Don’t Explain. Don’t Reveal. Stay Mysterious. She doesn’t want your detailed plan. She wants the thrill of your unknown moves. Mystery creates desire. Exposure kills it. Never explain your intelligence. Let her feel it—not understand it.

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9. Love Her Too Much, Lose Her Fast A girl never hates a man who keeps her guessing. But the moment you worship her, pedestal her, over-invest—she sees you as weak. She despises over-love. She respects power. Love moderately. Rule with calm detachment.

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10. Never Take Back a Woman Who Ignored You When You Were Broke She rejected you when you had nothing? Let her watch from the sidelines now that you’ve built something.

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If she didn’t choose you in your struggle, she doesn’t deserve you in your success. Loyalty starts when you have nothing to offer.

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11. Put Her First, She’ll Put You Last She’s wired to chase what she fears losing—not what’s always available. When you give her everything, she gets bored. When you hold frame, she submits. Be her prize, not her puppy.

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A man desired by multiple women is seen as more desirable. Therefore, men should include photos with women on their Tinder profiles to show they aren't repulsive to women. Calling out a man's exploits is pointless because it likely increases his status. Insults often target a woman's lack of chastity and a man's lack of experience, because those are perceived as the most valuable things they have to offer.
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Speaker 0: The fact that a man who is desired by multiple women is seen as desirable on average by more women is the reason why guys should have photos on their Tinder profile with them with other women, because it shows that you're not like a total basement dweller. Some women think I'm cool. Yeah, exactly. I'm not totally repulsive to women. Because of that, if a woman does start trying to call out a man's exploits because it is probably positive expected value on his status, it's a pointless thing to think It only makes him look better. Yeah, exactly. Think about like the insults that get thrown around on the Internet. The one from any woman or man to a woman is and the one from any man or woman to a man is Right? Yeah. So it's disparaging a lack of chastity on one side and a lack of experience on the other, because those are the most valuable things that they have to offer.

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12. Virginity Is Rare—But Non-Virgins Come with Baggage Yeah, virgins are hard to find. But if you think modern, body-count champions will bring peace, think again. She’s comparing you to every man before you.

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And most of those men didn’t pay the price you did. No man wins marrying a woman with ghosts in her bedroom.

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13. Women Make Rules for Betas, and Break Them for Alphas She’ll tell you she’s “not that type of girl”—then break every rule for the man she actually wants. Rules are compliance tests.

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If you follow them, she knows you’re beneath her. If you break them with confidence, she falls in line. She respects the man who doesn’t ask permission.

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14. She Doesn’t Love You—She Loves How You Make Her Feel Her love is emotional, not logical. The moment the feelings fade, so does her “loyalty.” You think she loves you? No—she loves the emotional high you provide.

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The second you stop stimulating her emotionally, she’s already detaching. Stop thinking her love is permanent. It’s rented, renewed daily.

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15. The More You Tolerate, the More She Tests You Boundaries aren’t optional,they’re survival. If you let her talk down to you once, she'll do it twice. If you tolerate disrespect, it becomes her default. Every inch you give her,she takes a mile.

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16. You Are Her Retirement Plan—Act Accordingly Many women aren't looking for love—they're looking for a provider before their looks expire. She’ll party in her 20s, then suddenly “want something serious” at 30+.

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Translation? She’s aging out of attention and wants to lock down a man she ignored before. Don’t be her Plan B. Be her missed opportunity.

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I shared insights on why some women may not want to sleep with you, highlighting key factors. Issues like porn addiction, desperation, and emotional immaturity can be major turn-offs. Being overly nice or predictable, lacking ambition, and poor hygiene also detract from attraction. It's important to lead confidently, listen actively, and create a sense of mystery. Flirting should be playful, and making her feel sexy is crucial. Ultimately, mutual satisfaction and understanding female nature are essential for connection and intimacy.

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16 Reasons She Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You - Female Psychology Thread -

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1. You’re Addicted to Porn Porn rewires your brain, distorts expectations, and lowers your energy. Women sense when your confidence is fake and your balls are empty. Constant consumption makes you desensitized to real women. Instead of sparking desire, you come off as detached. Fact: Women can “smell” when your energy is off, noticing when your focus is depleted by empty, overindulgent habits. Break the cycle—connect authentically.

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Your hands are controlled by your brain, so if you can't stop drinking, masturbating, watching porn, and typing pornographic content, it's your fault. There is no such thing as weak will. Use your brain and control your hands.
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Speaker 0: Your hands are controlled by your brain. If you can't stop fucking drinking, jerking off, watching porn, and typing porn hobbits to your little keyboard. That is nobody's fault. But yours is no such thing as weak will. Your hands are controlled by your brain. Use your brain and control your fucking hands.

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2. You’re Desperate Women sense desperation instantly—it’s a complete turn-off. Acting like her approval is your lifeline makes you seem weak. Constantly texting her, over-apologizing, or rushing intimacy kills the sexual tension. Instead, show self-control and let her come to you. Harsh Truth: Confidence seduces; desperation repels. Focus on improving yourself, and she’ll chase you.

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3. You’re Too Nice Women crave a man who challenges them, not someone who panders. Kindness is good, but excessive niceness screams inauthenticity. Stop agreeing with everything she says or avoiding conflict. Stand your ground with charm and wit. Fact: Research shows women are attracted to assertiveness, not passivity disguised as politeness.

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A nice guy desexualizes himself by avoiding his true desires for peace. A nice guy might feel uncomfortable but will sacrifice truth to avoid confrontation. Women are drawn to someone who tells the truth.
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Speaker 0: The difference between being nice and being a good guy is a nice guy desexualizes himself by foregoing what he truly wants for the sake of peace and harmony. So what he will do is a nice guy might feel uncomfortable with the situation, but because he doesn't want confrontation, he will sacrifice truth in order to gain harmony. But what the reality is, women are to somebody who is able to tell the truth.

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4. You Lack Ambition No drive, no attraction. Ambition signals strength, stability, and leadership—all traits women crave in a partner. If you spend your nights gaming or scrolling, she’ll lose interest. Work toward your goals and invite her into your exciting world. Studies show women rank ambition as one of the most attractive traits in a man.

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5. You’re Too Predictable Your routine is boring. Mystery and spontaneity keep the spark alive and intrigue building. Skip the dull “dinner and movie” date. Instead, plan an unexpected adventure like a late-night drive or an impromptu picnic. Pro Tip: Be unpredictable but still grounded to keep her curious and wanting more.

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6. You Don’t Lead A man who can’t take the lead in life won’t be trusted to lead in bed. Passivity kills desire. Stop asking her what she wants to do every five minutes. Plan the evening, take her hand, and guide the flow. Harsh Truth: A strong leader in life ignites a fiery connection in the bedroom.

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7. You've Got a Poor Hygiene Nothing kills arousal faster than bad breath, body odor, or unkempt nails. Basic grooming is non-negotiable. Before meeting her, shower, groom your beard, and wear a fresh, appealing cologne. Details matter. Fact: 76% of women rank hygiene as a top priority for physical attraction.

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8. You’re Emotionally Immature Childish behavior, emotional instability, or overreactions make her feel unsafe. Emotional maturity is irresistible. Handle disagreements calmly and avoid whining about small setbacks. Show her you can handle life’s challenges. Harsh Truth: Emotional control is strength; emotional immaturity is weakness.

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9. You’re Not Sexual Enough If you can’t project sexual energy, she won’t feel any. Women want to be desired, not treated like a fragile vase. Whisper something naughty in her ear or tease her lightly. Build the tension instead of playing it too safe. Pro Tip: Confidence and subtle seduction pave the way for intimacy.

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10. You Overexplain Overexplaining or oversharing turns her off. Keep some things mysterious to keep her intrigued. Example: If she asks about your past, give a confident, playful response like, “Some stories are best discovered later.” Harsh Truth: Talking too much robs the mystery she’s drawn to.

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11. You Don’t Flirt Properly Flirting is an art. Awkward attempts or overly aggressive moves kill the vibe. Uniquely compliment her, like noticing her smile or energy, not just her looks. Build sexual tension through playful teasing. Pro Tip: Flirting is about building chemistry, not pushing for outcomes.

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A woman was shopping at a furniture store when she made eye contact with a man. While she was looking at couches, he sat on one in front of her and asked how she thought it would look in their place, calling her "babe." She laughed, and they exchanged numbers. They have been dating for three months.
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Speaker 0: My girlfriend went shopping at a furniture store, and she catches eyes with a guy from across the room. Then as she's browsing the couch section, he sits down on a couch in front of her and says, hey, babe. How How do you think this couch would look in our place? She laughed. They exchanged numbers, and now they've been dating for three months.

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12. You’re Overly Eager Jumping into sexual innuendos or trying to rush the process makes her feel objectified. Instead of diving straight into sexual compliments, focus on deep, meaningful conversations to create emotional and sexual chemistry. Harsh Truth: Balance patience with boldness to build irresistible tension.

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13. You Don’t Listen If you ignore her words, you’re ignoring her needs. Active listening shows you care and creates intimacy. Remember the details she shares and bring them up later to show you’re attentive. Fact: Genuine listening makes her feel special, setting the stage for deeper connections.

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14. You’re Passive in the Bedroom Women want a partner who takes control. Being passive in the bedroom signals disinterest or lack of confidence. Plan the experience, from setting the mood to initiating foreplay. Lead with confidence and adapt to her reactions. Pro Tip: She craves a partner who takes charge, not someone who waits for permission.

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To stand out in the bedroom, men should try lifting their partner during intercourse. This will differentiate them from the average man. Additionally, men should stop sabotaging their relationships by learning about relationship myths.
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Speaker 0: Do you want to stand out in the bedroom? Well, try being a bit more athletic than the average man. Try picking her up during the act of coitus and continuing the act of coitus whilst she is lifted physically in the air by your strong muscular arms. This is absolutely going to make you stand out from the average guy who's just laying her down on the bed and giving her five minutes of visionary. And stop sabotaging your relationships while you're at it and learn some of these myths.

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15. You Don’t Make Her Feel Sexy Women want to feel desired. Failing to compliment or appreciate her kills her enthusiasm. Compliment how her dress highlights her figure or how her energy lights up the room. Fact: Making her feel sexy boosts her confidence and connection to you.

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16. You’re Self-Centered Focusing only on your needs without considering hers makes intimacy one-sided. Example: Pay attention to her body language and verbal cues. Take the time to explore what she enjoys. Harsh Truth: Mutual satisfaction is key to keeping the connection alive.

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I told my husband I wanted a divorce because I feel like I can't be myself, yet I realize I don’t even know who I am. I love everything about him, but I believe building our relationship on God could make things easier for us.

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Woman says she wanted to get a divorce with her perfect husband because she can’t be herself then immediately says she doesn’t know who she is. “I told my husband I wanted a divorce… There is not a single thing about my husband, in and of himself, that I do not love…” Build your relationship on God and things will be easier.

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Earlier this year, the speaker told her husband she wanted a divorce after ten years of marriage, a decision she kept secret from family and friends. While she loves her husband's admirable personal qualities, her expectations for their marriage are unmet, and she feels unable to be herself. The speaker and her husband are approaching their tenth anniversary and a trip to Mexico where they plan to rewrite their vows. She is struggling to write them, feeling that little has changed since she first raised the issue of divorce. Although she could seek the love she craves elsewhere, she is unwilling to face those hardships and wants to work on the relationship. Since the initial discussion, the speaker started a business, and her husband quit his job, leading to significant life changes. She is seeking advice on how to improve her marriage and is open to suggestions, including therapy, books, and podcasts. She doesn't want to look back in ten years with no progress.
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Speaker 0: I don't know if I'm gonna actually post this because this is super vulnerable for me, and I'm a pretty open person. But earlier this year, I told my husband I wanted a divorce. And this would probably shock a lot of my friends and my family because I hadn't told anybody. Okay? I walked myself through the logistics of where would I live, how would we split the time with the kids, who gets the dog, where all of those things. Okay? Had a full breakdown. I feel like I have been searching for something in my relationship that we don't have for the whole time we've been married, which has been ten years. I there is not a single thing about my husband in and of himself that I do not love. Let me be very clear about that. He is the most self disciplined, loyal, hardworking, good person that you could meet on this planet. And that is probably the reason that is the reason why I have not left. Okay? Our relationship and what my expectations are for my marriage and what they always happen are not met. Right? Which I don't know if anybody's are. The reason that pushed me to even bring up divorce and talk about it was the fact that I feel like I don't I can't be myself with my husband. And it's really confusing because I'm 32 years old. I am a mom of three, and I still don't know who I am. So for me to be like, oh, I can't be myself or you don't love me for who I am isn't really fair because I don't know who I am. I'm figuring that out every day. But the reason why I wanted to share this on here in the first place is we are coming up on our ten year anniversary. We're going to Mexico, to Cabo for our ten year anniversary trip, and we're rewriting our vows. We never wrote vows in the first place. We didn't have vows when we got married. And I'm struggling to write my vows, like, to write a vow. And I think that's because I still feel very unsure in our relationship. The one thing that we finally talked about this this past week together because it's just been something that since we kinda talked about it and I brought it up and we committed to change and we committed to working on our relationship, I started my own business. He quit his job. Roles have changed. Life has been crazy, and we just haven't come back to talking about the subject. And I brought it up again because I'm like, I'm gonna be honest with you. Like, writing these vows is hard. I don't feel like we're any closer. I don't feel like anything has really changed since I brought this up six months ago, nine months ago, whatever. And I I want to work on our relationship. Like, at the end of the day, of course, I could get a divorce and try to go find the love that I'm craving with somebody else. But that's gonna come with its own hardships, its own complications, and ones that I'm not right now, I'm not willing to take on. Right? I love Ryan. He is the best father. Okay? I just need to learn how to explain what I need from him in our relationship, and he needs to be able to give that, and I need to be doing the same for him so that we can both, like, in ten years from now, in the next ten years, look back and say, like, we put in the work, and we finally have the marriage and the relationship that we've have always wanted, and that is what I want. I guess the reason why I'm coming on here, and if you've made it this long, that's really nice. What have you done in your relationship to get to that point? If you have been in a place where we are and have worked through it and have found things that have brought you closer or that have given you that relationship, like, I I'm just, I guess, asking for advice. Like, what have you done in order to get there, and what has worked for you? We're we're honestly willing to try anything. We have done therapy and counseling before, and it was fine, honestly. It wasn't, like, my favorite thing, but I'm willing to try that again. And I don't know. Books, podcasts, like, what what have what have you guys done that has worked for you to get your marriage to where you want it to be? I I just don't like, thinking, okay. We've been married for ten years, and I've we've kind of, like, been at the same point the whole time. I just don't wanna look back ten years from now and not have tried my best to have this, like, relationship that we both want and that we deserve and that our kids deserve to see in us. So I'm kinda being vulnerable in posting this on here, but I would just like to know, like, what has worked for you and and what advice, I guess, you would have for me. Thanks.
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After years of following conventional medical advice, my father faced serious health issues. By embracing a new approach, he lost 40lbs and became cancer-free. I shared 19 health secrets that transformed his life, emphasizing the importance of a balanced lifestyle over quick fixes. Key points include the significance of protein, the connection between physical and mental health, and the necessity of accountability. As a new father, I recognize the importance of being healthy for my daughter’s future, reminding us that our families deserve the best version of ourselves.

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After 3 decades of listening to his doctors, my father ended up with: • Cancer • Diabetes • Heart disease After 3 years of listening to his son... He lost 40lbs & became cancer free. Here's 19 health secrets his doctors never told him: 1. Stop doing diets that have a name https://t.co/DNCQl8De8T

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2. Carbs don't make you fat - too many calories do. If you want to lose weight… • Be more active • Eat more protein • Stay in a healthy caloric deficit

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3. Your physical health and mental health are not two separate things. They are reflections of one another. So treat them both with respect.

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4. Working out 3-5 days/week is more sustainable long term than 6-7 days/week. The goal should never be a quick fix. Instead, focus on enhancing your lifestyle.

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5. The only equipment you *need* is your body. Too many people use the gym as an excuse. “I have no time” Something as simple as walking 10,000 steps a day can literally keep the doctors away.

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6. Resistance training is far superior to cardio for fat loss. Unlike cardio… Resistance training allows you to burn even after your workout is over.

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7. The only “diet” that works is a high-protein one. Protein keeps you satiated. You should be consuming 1g of protein per pound you weigh. Not only will it help you build muscle, but it will also help you burn fat.

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8. Skipping workouts to spend more time with your family shortens your time on earth with your family. Your health should always come first. Your loved ones deserve the best version of you. All it takes is 4 hours a week. Stop making excuses.

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9. Exercise is a documented antidepressant. Sad? Go to the gym. Anxious? Go to the gym. Depressed? Go to the gym. The gym can literally solve all your problems.

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10. Most hunger scares can be cured by drinking water. The majority of people overeat because they’re: • Bored • Thirsty • Stressed Next time you’re craving a snack, drink a glass of water & wait a few minutes.

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11. Sodium is not killing you. It is keeping you alive. 90% of Americans are dehydrated every day. A pinch of Celtic salt in your water can do you wonders.

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12. Your habits make you fat, not the “fat gene.” Every single person on this earth is where they are physically/mentally because of their default actions. Good or bad. Put down the chips and pick up a glass of water.

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13. Quality sleep is a performance-enhancing drug. Implement the 321 method: • No food 3 hours before bed • No liquid 2 hours before bed • No screens 1 hour before bed Aim to get 7-8 hours per night.

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14. Reduce as much stress as possible. The best ways to do this: Take cold showers or ice baths periodically to increase your stress tolerance.

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15. Stop waiting till your next doctor's visit to weigh yourself. You can’t manage a problem you avoid confronting. Weigh yourself daily.

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16. Having no routine on the weekends is saying your goals don’t matter 29% of the time. If you want something bad enough… It needs to stay on your mind 24/7 until it becomes a part of your default actions.

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17. Eat slower. It gives your body time to secret Leptin, the “I’m full” hormone. 90% of Americans overeat because they eat too quickly.

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18. Stop picking up your phone as soon as you wake up. Mindless morning scrolling starts the day off with unnecessary stress. Wait 30 minutes to check your phone instead.

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19. I’ve never seen anyone keep the weight off long-term without accountability outside of themselves. Join a strong community. Share your goals with other men.

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Incorporating these into my father's routine not only made him a healthier man… But it also reminded him that our bodies are the temple of God, and we should honor it as such. & Now that I just had my first daughter, these principles matter more than ever… https://t.co/7OZNpLyHrz

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She deserves a father who will be around for her wedding, her children, and every milestone in between. So remember: Your family deserves the best version of you. And that starts with honoring the body God gave you.

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